Saudade Posted July 19, 2009 Posted July 19, 2009 So, haven't spoken to my ex for 6 weeks now when out of the blue I get a text yesterday morning, very cold, telling me about a contract of mine that ends in 30 days and thought I should be reminded - needless to say I didn't answer. Anyway at midnight I had a missed call with an answer phone message with a song playing in the background of a busy club. Get a text this morning saying 'sorry for calling, but that song came on that you liked, was in a club and made me think of you, can't believe you had a crush on that singer - ouch!' Everything in me is stopping me from answering, nothing to answer to right? why would he be telling me he's in a club having a great time - really hurts, crushing in fact, all I have in my head is him out and about having a great time. Please help....
hrtbrk hotel tenant Posted July 19, 2009 Posted July 19, 2009 may be a ploy to get u to be jealous or he may be thinkin of u either way unless ur tryin to get back together really there is no need to answer his attempts to contact u need time when ur emotional ready to converse with him again be strong gurl.
Author Saudade Posted July 19, 2009 Author Posted July 19, 2009 Is this an attempt by him to get me back??? I'd take him back tomorrow if I could, but I also have to be aware that might not be what that was about, so I could be heading for a fall again! I'm not going to contact him - I can't, the hurt is too much. He will have to do more than that if he does want me back.
hrtbrk hotel tenant Posted July 19, 2009 Posted July 19, 2009 i want my ex gurl back to we were together for 3 yrs it had good and bad times but we grew together she broke up with me then the next day went over a guys house but still i want her back but i wont until i am emotional strong enuf to handle it all i hurt tremendously so there is no need to talk to her right now. yeah also they broke up with us so they dont want us(for now) so as the dumpee why expend our efforts on tryin to get them back if they want us they know how to find us.
Thomas X Forever Posted July 19, 2009 Posted July 19, 2009 God, sometimes psychology is freaking annoying. Wanna know what you should do? Keep going NC forever. This guy is a simpleton, a weak minded insect who wanted his cake and eat it too. In order to avoid facing any pain or guilt when he heard that song, he called you to alleviate any potential feelings. That way, he isn't subconsciously facing any real turmoil. This guy is a joke. I could have a field day with this kid
Author Saudade Posted July 19, 2009 Author Posted July 19, 2009 Thanks you guys for getting back to me, all advice is wlecome. I am glad I haven't answered him back, think I saved myself a whole lot of pain All to messy.
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