FIREMAN Posted July 19, 2009 Posted July 19, 2009 She's at it again!! In Jan., we "took a break", but kept in contact. Since then, things have gotten back on track and were getting better. We've been seeing eachother a lot, and dating\communicating better, calling\txtin several times a day. Last weekend, we had a great night, went to dinner, she invited me back to her place. We watched a movie and had sex. I didn't expect the sex and was caught off-guard, as I'd asked her a week earlier if she was ready to move further in the rel. She was tired, so it was good, but quick. LESS THAN 12 Hours after, it's like it was months ago...She takes forever to return a text or call to me, if at all and has withdrawn. I got her to go out w\me for ice cream the other night and brought this up and she said nothing's wrong, she's just busy at home... I know something's bothering her, as this is a pattern for the past 4 years!! How do I get her to open up? She told a friend once that she sees me in her future as her husband...How can she expect this to happen if she won't reveal what's bothering her? At tx she's said she didn't feel "connected during sex"...but when she keeps me off-guard, HOW can I feel into it??? How can I get her to open up?
Author FIREMAN Posted July 19, 2009 Author Posted July 19, 2009 She seems to "run" or withdraw EVERY time we get this close or intimate, though she denies it and we wind up arguing about it, but the facts are the facts and this happens EVERY SINGLE TIME we get back on track and then have sex... I want to avoid a fight this time. What to do?
baghdadbrad Posted July 20, 2009 Posted July 20, 2009 I'm sorry Fireman, as I'm not familiar with your story. But I seem to be going through a similar situation with my ex wife. Exept we havn't been intimate yet. I know this isn't helping you, but I am hoping that you could shed some light on my issue. Since you've been back on track, has she told you she is confused? Do you think all this trouble is worth it? I know when you love someone, someone will say walk away, but it isn't that easy. Sorry, I'm of no help to you, but we both seem to get the same lack of responses. I hope things get better for you.
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