GreenEyedLady Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 Mino, I didn't see this until now... How are things?
Author Mino Posted July 21, 2009 Author Posted July 21, 2009 Mino, I didn't see this until now... How are things? ugh, its been rough these last two days. Work is wierd, I dont even look at him. He keeps running into me, I ignore, and then run home, lock myself in, and yeah, my heart hurts. Guess thats to be expected. But knowing what nc was like the first week, I DO know I just have to ride it out, and that means I will have to endure this stupid heartache. But tomorrow will be a better day, AND I learned one more thing to this hard lesson. DONT BREAK NC!! (even if he cries)
whichwayisup Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 So, let him cry! He won't die if he cries! Think of your slip as one last goodbye and now you can really do your best to get back into NC mode. I still think it'll be much easier for you this time around.
White Flower Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 Mino, you are only human. You love him and you tried to deny him under those circumstances. Tomorrow is another day. (((Hugs)))
jj33 Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 Have a good day today Mino. And remember YOU have cried BUCKETS and RIVERS of tears over this man. You are not his mother and you are not his wife. You do not have to sacrifice your lif for this man who cant decide how to deal with his illness and his life. Love is not always enough to make things work out. Cherish what you had but be strong and look to the future.
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