aloneanddepressed Posted July 18, 2009 Posted July 18, 2009 I noticed my ex bf of three weeks is on this Stickam site. Has anyone heard of this? Its like a live streaming video site. I feel like he is on there trying to pick up girls, and I can't help but wonder if he had been doing stuff like this the entire time we dated. Does anyone on here use that site? When I see people on sites like this, it just looks like they are up to no good. I could be wrong, but I don't know. Not to mention, I saw him on another site similar to Stickam, I believe it was called "Woome"..another live cam site. He also is a member of Fubar.com as well, which is an online bar. I found this out when we were dating, but didn't appear like he was active on the site. What does this sound like? Does this say something about his personality or intentions? I personally at this point, feel like he just kicked me under the rug, and is on these type of sites doing god knows what. I know I should not upset myself seeing what he is up to, but I can't help it.
moo Posted July 18, 2009 Posted July 18, 2009 Right now, you don't need to be asking these questions. You really don't need to be. It's just going to slow down your healing process. I want to check on my ex right now, using the internet...but I'm not going to. Someone in this forum said full NC includes not checking up on your ex. I want to be full NC, therefore, I will not do that and you should not either. My ex doesn't give a crap how I'm doing. He knows I am in pieces, but he didn't care enough to answer my questions. So if he didn't care or respect me enough, why should I check up on him? Believe me, don't check up on him.
Author aloneanddepressed Posted July 18, 2009 Author Posted July 18, 2009 Well, I know I shouldn't be seeing what he is up to, and doing NC, but that was not my question. I was asking about the sites, because just curious why a guy would be on those types of sites. Also, he was on a few of them before we even broke up. I don't know today, everything is getting to me again.
Exit Posted July 18, 2009 Posted July 18, 2009 Some people just like to chat on those sites, but yes I'm sure there's the possibility that it could lead to flirting and more. Try not to worry about it.
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