ErikVA Posted July 18, 2009 Posted July 18, 2009 Hi, - first appologize if I'm writing mistakes my native tongue is Dutch (Belgium) now my story.. My girl broke with me 3m ago after a relation of 4yr. (both of us now 25yrs) I head hard weeks trying to survive and keep myself strong at work.. I had little contact with her.. never took the first step to call/text her. the first 3wks of the break up we met 3times for a chat and the last time to exchange personal items that left in the houses (we still life with our parents - only started working for 1yr so not that much money to build our love shelter - turned out to be wise to stay home) when she announced the break she had some tears, when she came to pick up her stuff she had some tears.. though she had a new friend (lover) the day after the break up so somewhere inbetween they must have met eachother.. now last week was again hard.. we were both at a festival (bought the tickets when we were togheter) but went in seperate groups.. she sent me lots of txts about last year and thinking of me.. so we decided to go for diner; which was NO good idea after all.. she started crying when she asked me if I still love her, or if I'd would take her back.. after this diner I knew she went downwards after her (our) break up. though! she still has her new lover.. on tuesday she txts me at 5am "I miss you" I did not answer so the evening after she's texting: "Yes the msg this 'night' was ment for you" the day after she's on MSN (since years ago) she starts a chat with me end ends this with I miss you xxx (xxx == kiss kiss kiss (think its standard but just to know)) what's now? well after the evening on MSN the day after she went on holiday with her new family.. so now there's a period of NC should she realy meant the words and tears from before?? When I was asking her abt the upcoming holiday, she also started a little cry, looked like she was not happy on it.. i asked her to cancel this but she couldn't cuz they have done a lot of movements on days to get her along.. (though not on the same dates, there was no more place in the planes so she did go alone - and meet them on spot) I know she went once to a pshychiatric to have a chat about her downfall.. well know I have no idea abt her... would she have meant her tears.. will she get back in touch after the holiday.. should I wait??
boogieboy Posted July 18, 2009 Posted July 18, 2009 You shouldnt wait for her. She is trying to keep herself in your head just in case it doesnt work out with the new guy. They rarely come back. Do not answer anymore of her texts unless she says she wants to try again. She might be texting you to make sure that you are still after her. I wouldnt believe she is very hurt if she started with this new guy right away. She is very shady, and do not fall for any of her "i miss you's" or "kisses".
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