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I'm breaking up 5 yr relationship, any tips to make it go smoothly?

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Been thinking about it for a while, but Ive just been putting it off and questioning my decision. Any tips for building the courage to do this or how I should do this? We currently live togeather so it makes it a little difficult.

 

She want to get married but I'm just not happy being in a relationship at this point in my life. We're both 25.

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All you can do is be honest. Honesty needs to be your number one goal, even above making the breakup "easy on her". If the truth is hard on her, then so be it.

 

Tell her you are not ready for this at this point in your life. Tell her she shouldn't settle for a guy who doesn't feel quite as strong about a future together.

 

The truth will set you free. All you can do is tell her your 100% true feelings, which is the most loving thing you can do for her.

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