womansintution Posted July 18, 2009 Posted July 18, 2009 Just looking for some opinions regarding romantic chemistry. Here are my questions. 1. How common is romantic chemistry? 2. Is it always mutual? 3. Is it possible to ignore it? 4. Do you think there's a link between romantic chemistry and a possible soulmate? 5. How would you describe romantic chemistry? I personally have a hell of a time finding romantic chemistry. As a matter of fact, I think I've only found it 3, possibly 4 times in my life. Any input would be appreciated. Thanks
m-j Posted July 18, 2009 Posted July 18, 2009 1. How common is romantic chemistry? Very! Everyone has felt it once in their lives. 2. Is it always mutual? well, unless you are completely deluded and the other person is a seriously good actor, YES it is mutual. chemistry is two people's pheramones combining and creating a euphoric atmosphere between them. 3. Is it possible to ignore it? It is extremely hard to. I.e if you are in a relationship and have chemistry with someone else. You can disregard it or give in to it. 4. Do you think there's a link between romantic chemistry and a possible soulmate? Not necessarily. Chemistry happens between lots of different people, you can only choose one! 5. How would you describe romantic chemistry? Instant mutual visual attraction. Instant switch on of your seductive capabilities, usually subconcious. Every word you say just fits with every word they say. You agree on everythign that matters, you may disagree on not so important things which causes a bit of sexual tension. You desire them with every inch of your body and soul. You FEEL the vibe. ITs wonderful.
colosseum Posted July 18, 2009 Posted July 18, 2009 1. How common is romantic chemistry? Depends on your experience, but I'd say real romantic chemistry doesn't happen often (and I'm excluding pure lust chemistry--the wow I really love your company rather than man I really want some of that *expletive*). 2. Is it always mutual? Without mutuality/reciprocation, there can be no romantic chemistry (unless, like above stated, one is delusional) 3. Is it possible to ignore it? Sure; if you are 1. delusional 2. have severe personal issues that forces you to ignore this (i.e. paranoia, or w/e) 4. Do you think there's a link between romantic chemistry and a possible soulmate? romantic chemistry is necessary for a "soulmate" (if such exists), but that alone is not sufficient. 5. How would you describe romantic chemistry? When you are with him/her your world and your heart are at peace; everything just feels right. You love, feel loved, and most importantly, that person makes you want to become a better person.
collegekid491 Posted July 18, 2009 Posted July 18, 2009 Just looking for some opinions regarding romantic chemistry. Here are my questions. 1. How common is romantic chemistry? 2. Is it always mutual? 3. Is it possible to ignore it? 4. Do you think there's a link between romantic chemistry and a possible soulmate? 5. How would you describe romantic chemistry? I personally have a hell of a time finding romantic chemistry. As a matter of fact, I think I've only found it 3, possibly 4 times in my life. Any input would be appreciated. Thanks 1. Not very, but I guess it depends on what you classify it as. I classify chemistry as taking very little effort, just a unexplained presence of passion on the same wave length 2. Yes, otherwise its not chemistry, it would be closer to infatuation 3. Yes, but like anything, just cause you ignore it doesn't mean it isn't there 4. To a certain extent, we do grow and change, my high school sweetheart and i had chemistry then, we don't now. But there has to be an amount of chemistry between you and your soulmate imo 5. refer to #1
pwnstigator Posted July 18, 2009 Posted July 18, 2009 Just looking for some opinions regarding romantic chemistry. Here are my questions. 1. How common is romantic chemistry? 2. Is it always mutual? 3. Is it possible to ignore it? 4. Do you think there's a link between romantic chemistry and a possible soulmate? 5. How would you describe romantic chemistry? I personally have a hell of a time finding romantic chemistry. As a matter of fact, I think I've only found it 3, possibly 4 times in my life. Any input would be appreciated. Thanks 1. "Chemistry" is a badly-defined term usually used by people not articulate enough to describe what is actually happening. I'll say this, though: that intense first-sight emotional connection seems to happen about once every 3 years, and usually in a context of novelty (travel, foreign country). 2. Limerence and crushes? No. That's (temporary and common) mental illness, by the way. But the "wow, this person is awesome" feeling usually is. 3. Sure, but regret is one of the most painful attitudes one can hold toward the past. If you have the inkling that someone's amazing, get to know her. Often you'll find out that she's not, but this is better than regretting a missed opportunity. 4. "Romantic chemistry" and "soulmate" are pretty poorly defined terms. I generally would argue that "love at first sight" is a misnomer, but it's possible to have a powerful first-sight connection that evolves into love as you get to know the person. 5. Usually, it's an excuse people use to explain a lack of physical attraction to an ostensibly decent person. "He's a fine guy, but I don't feel chemistry." Most people of both genders have hilariously infantile tastes in the opposite sex that they refuse to acknowledge, so the abstraction of "chemistry" allows people to sweep this failing aspect of their character under the rug.
JHparkes Posted July 19, 2009 Posted July 19, 2009 to me it is a feeling of one-nuss (no such word I know lol) it feels like you can almost read their mind their touch is electric there is no way that you can experience it without it being mutual as you can literally *feel* that they feel the same through the look in their eyes and their body language connecting with your subconscious mind,telling you it is what it is It's a feeling that they know you deep inside on a sub-conscious level, yet they've probably not known you long It's also a feeling that you could never be made to feel stupid in their presence, you instinctively know that they instinctively know exactly where you are coming from in many aspects it's comes along completely randomly and out of the blue and when you least expect it It's taken me until a year ago (I am now 30) to realise that all I felt above was down to chemistry....... Last time I truely felt it was about 2 years ago.... I want it again ... I long for it again......
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