m-j Posted July 18, 2009 Posted July 18, 2009 i am going insane. I am at work. My boyfriend phoned me to tell me about his night last night. These are the people involved. A - i used to hook up with him, used to be friends with my boyfriend, they had a falling out when i started dating BF B - BF cheated on me with this person, doesnt speak to her or see her anymore C - our housemate/friend, has a hook-up history with my BF and she is very hot, available, affectionate and hooks up wtih EVERYBODY when she is drunk BF - my boyfriend This is the info he gave me on the phone before I said i was at work and i have to go. a) he is possibly still drunk at 3pm b) A & B were at the club and BF started a fight with C because C is still friends with B and should have told him that B would be there c) BF and C came home together (we live together) and they dont remember a thing I automatically think that my boyfriend and C have hooked up "without knowing" in the cab/wherever. I can never ask because I have suspected him before and he is sick of me asking. They will never tell because they "dont remember". I am going insane i want to ask him so badly i want to call him back right now i keep going for the phone. its driving me INSANE. it helps to write this out because i realise i sound like a lunatic and theres nothing i can do about what probably didnt even happen. HELP
Bayern Posted July 18, 2009 Posted July 18, 2009 He didn't have to tell you who he was with last night. He could have lied. If he told you all the truth about it I would assume nothing happend, to be honest. What do I know, though...
Author m-j Posted July 18, 2009 Author Posted July 18, 2009 well we are all friends with the same people who were with him all night and they would have told me if anything happened. i just spoke to his best friend who is also good friends with me and cares about me. he thinks i am being ridiculous. i feel better.
Author m-j Posted July 18, 2009 Author Posted July 18, 2009 i remember when i cheated multiple times on my ex boyfriend and i would cheat ANYWHERE i could. any chance i could. people can cheat ANYWHERE and no one knows. i was very stealthy. i am judging him by my past actions. which isnt fair. i, of course, have changed my ways and havent cheated on my current boyfriend ONCE so people can change. I just dont know if he has.
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