Well Facebook and Myspace finally got me

[lostwithafuture]

Haha yeah, not that I like to sit here and think mean thoughts, but she can go ahead and enjoy her time while she's attractive (she goes to work every day with her chest popping out of her shirt). Looking at her mother, I'd say her looks are going to fade eventually. Lol I know that sounds awful, I'm just trying to cheer myself up lol.

 

Lol I really hope that something like that happens to my girl soon to be ex in about 15 years. All their looks are going to fade eventually but they forget this and the years go by and they will be stuck with someone who does not give a crap about them! And then the days they are alone will seem like a life time. SWEET! thanks I just cheered myself up too. lol

[Exit]

Well my road to recovery continues one step at a time. Left my house this morning with a cover letter and resume in-hand, and came back home with a job. The ironic part? I have to take the highway and get off at the exact same exit right next to the store where she works. Maybe when she gets a full time job she won't work there any more, but it will always remind me of her. Oh well.

 

Hopefully going to work every day, after being unemployed for waaaaaay too long, is going to help ease my suffering. And I am excited to have some spending money again.

 

I actually did send her a quick message just telling her that I got a job. It was the cause of so many problems in our relationship. Not going out together to save money, fighting over expenses, being bored and alone all day and getting needy when she couldn't come over to see me, I just wanted her to know that I finally overcame this hurdle and am getting my life straightened out. No begging, no pleading, but maybe it will give her something to think about. Actions speak louder than words and instead of telling her I can change, now I have proof that I can.

[NopeNah]

Congrats on the new job! I would not have told her about it. Makes it look like you're doing this for her, and that shouldn't be the case.

[Thomas X Forever]

I don't like how you contacted her, because:

 

A). You've broken NC. You have relieved temporary pain, but it will come back to bite you harder in the future

 

B). You are now holding onto some glimmer of FALSE hope that you telling her you've gotten a job, will somehow lure her back to you. Now a cloud will hang over this new job.

[kizik]

For once I actually agree with Thomas about something.

 

Someone who has dumped you has essentially said, "You suck."

 

And now you're telling that person, "But... but... I got a job!"

 

Now, I know you didn't mean it that way - your brain is still wired to contact her every time something cool happens. But in essence, you're still begging for her approval.

 

When someone dumps you, they don't get to hear about you anymore.

 

For example, I got an email from my abandoning father on my birthday this year. "What are you up to, son?"

 

My reply: "All sorts of exciting things. And you don't get to know about ANY of them." MotherF*cker thinks he can just wander in and out of my life. Just like all these exes.

[Thomas X Forever]

See kizik, it's not so hard to get along. I never initiate anything with you, so be cordial and you and me will never have a problem

[kizik]

See kizik, it's not so hard to get along. I never initiate anything with you, so be cordial and you and me will never have a problem

 

Agreeing with you on a minor point is hardly getting along. To be frank, I think you erroneously flaunt your B.A. in Psych so that people here will listen to you. In reality, you know no more than most people here. Also, you act very superior to other users and brandish a mocking attitude whenever it suits you.

[Thomas X Forever]

Sorry I should've worded it differently. Don't go out of your way to pick a fight, and we won't argue. The end