Giha Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 Well, today I 'celebrate' a full month of NC. I thought i'd feel accomplished or something but I feel empty. I miss her so much it drives me crazy. But yay me I guess, quite an achievment for me. I just kept reminding myself I got nothing to go back to.
fabulous_chk Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 There's a party over here wooo-hooo! Congrats Giha. Remember, there's a world out there full of possibilities!!!:love::love: (you know what i mean;) )
BCCA Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 Hang in there, thats a great start. Before you know it, it will be a few months, and so on. Things take time to heal, but youre headed in the right direction. Youre on a much better path now than you were a month ago.
fabulous_chk Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 Well, today I 'celebrate' a full month of NC. But yay me I guess, quite an achievment for me. I just kept reminding myself I got nothing to go back to. Dude, it's an awesome achievement!!! I only lasted 18 days!
bitteorca Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 hang in there Giha. Like BCCA has mentioned, look back at what you were like a month ago. Of course you're not healed completely yet, but you have come far, you've progressed. I always think that way...I'm not there at all, but I'm no where near as bad as I was, or as bad as I could be staying in contact with her for that matter. keep going mate!
Author Giha Posted July 17, 2009 Author Posted July 17, 2009 Thanks for the encouragement, everyone. I will stick to NC with the same thinking that I got nothing to go back to. She has a new BF and I just won't allow myself to settle for less that being 1st.
Meaplus3 Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 Good for you. What a great job your doing. Keep it up and it will get easier. Mea:)
bitteorca Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 her having a new bf (rebound or not) should give you encouragement to move on more. It means it probably won't happen any time soon if at all, and thus means you have to take care of yourself now and focus only on that, which includes trying to 'move on'. I wish you luck, keep going, the colour will gradually permeate
Author Giha Posted July 18, 2009 Author Posted July 18, 2009 Thanks guys. I feel better than when I posted this thread, more indifferent about her somehow. For the first time in over 3 months I feel ok. a nice change of pace...I hope it lasts.
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