kizik Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 Lora, if the guy has a lot of semi-flirtatious comments from girls on his page, and you're dating him, I would simply have a quick convo with him and let him know this makes you a bit uncomfortable. At that point, he needs to say: "Oh, those girls? I could care less about them! YOU'RE the one I want, baby!" and then you'll feel a lot better.
D-Lish Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 It's even worse when you see a guy with an online dating profile, and he posts pictures of him with his arms draped around scantilly clad women! I immediately dismiss those guys as insecure!
Author lora22 Posted July 17, 2009 Author Posted July 17, 2009 Lora, if the guy has a lot of semi-flirtatious comments from girls on his page, and you're dating him, I would simply have a quick convo with him and let him know this makes you a bit uncomfortable. At that point, he needs to say: "Oh, those girls? I could care less about them! YOU'RE the one I want, baby!" and then you'll feel a lot better. LOL I know that you're right. However, in this case I know that I'm just being a little crazy - I KNOW that there is nothing going on with any of these girls and I KNOW that he's not interested in any of them (I know him well enough); and he does a really good job of making me feel special. He's a pretty great guy. It just bugs the crap out of me, because I want these other girls to know that I'm more special! As one of the posters above said, these girls that I'm uncomfortable with posting are only acquaintances - I know who the friends are, and I've met them. The girls in question I will never meet. I'm getting possessive of this guy! Grrrrrrr.
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