brokenglass Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 Oh my GODDDDDDDDDDDD I'm not going to get into it, I don't want to jinx myself, but I finally met a girl (a woman, excuse me) that I am really, really attracted to last night. I've met a lot of girls I'm attracted to lately however, she actually likes me back. oh I am so happy right now :D:D:D:D:D:D:D
Bayern Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 Oh my GODDDDDDDDDDDD I'm not going to get into it, I don't want to jinx myself, but I finally met a girl (a woman, excuse me) that I am really, really attracted to last night. I've met a lot of girls I'm attracted to lately however, she actually likes me back. oh I am so happy right now :D:D:D:D:D:D:D Awsome man! Good luck!
Author brokenglass Posted July 17, 2009 Author Posted July 17, 2009 Her and I have been talking for a while now and yes, we decided last night we'd finally just hang out and meet eachother. Went over to her place, had a drink and a smoke, got in the car and went to see a movie. Afterwards, we hung out at my friends for a few moments (they went to the movies with us) and we went back to her place and chatted for a while. I cut out early enough for her to get some sleep for work today, soft little kiss before I left, it was magical. I think the difference here is I can tell this girl likes me, whereas every other girl I've met the past few months, its quite obvious when they actually like me or when they're pretending. This one wasn't pretending. We've made plans to go hiking tomorrow. So very excited Slow down, I know. *takes a deep breath* I mean, I am completely f'ing smitten. But I am aware enough that this is a woman I'd like to date, not just tag and bag as my friends would say. Definitely someone I can see me being compatible with. Here's hoping I handle this all properly lol. Anyone have advice?
kizik Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 I cut out early enough for her to get some sleep for work today, soft little kiss before I left, it was magical. :love::love: Awesome, dude! Sounds romantic and exciting. You da man!!!
kizik Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 Here's hoping I handle this all properly lol. Anyone have advice? Sure, I got some. 1. Agreed with some other posters - relax, breathe, and get ahold of yourself... dammit! 2. Go on your hike, and then don't call her for three days. If you're overeager, they can smell that, and all of a sudden you're a loser/creep. Let her wonder about you a little bit, and hit her up just as she thinks you're losing interest. 3. Get involved with other things right now. Exercise, art, whatever... let your energy be elsewhere, and you'll be even cooler in her eyes. Best of luck!
Author brokenglass Posted July 17, 2009 Author Posted July 17, 2009 Awesome, dude! Sounds romantic and exciting. You da man!!! There was this pause as I was leaving, she wanted a hug. I wanted to hug her. We hugged, and I went in for my normal bear-type hugs and she wasn't ready. There was a short pat pat situation lol, then she grabbed my hands and I grabbed hers and looked at her and said, "I'm going to kiss you, are you ok with that?" She looked like she wasn't sure but smiled, she paused, I leaned in...our hands were locked and arms were held out at our sides, pressed real gently on her lips, then pulled back. She smiled and leaned in, another soft kiss. She smiled and leaned back and said "no tongue" and I said, "no worries." She laughed very hard as I stumbled out of the door, getting my clothes caught on everything I could in the process.
kizik Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 she grabbed my hands and I grabbed hers and looked at her and said, "I'm going to kiss you, are you ok with that?" She looked like she wasn't sure but smiled... Classic mistake #1. Don't EVER ask a girl if you can kiss her. Just DO it. Show em you got a pair, buddy. Women want men to take initiative.
Author brokenglass Posted July 17, 2009 Author Posted July 17, 2009 lol Well excuse me! You had to have been there, with what we were doing, the conversation, etc. It was appropriate. Otherwise I would have just done it, but in this instance there was no mistake. She melted.
br0ken_w0lf Posted July 18, 2009 Posted July 18, 2009 Congrats, BG! I love seeing happy stories here on LS! And yeah, we all know we're not supposed to ask if we can kiss them but if it worked, who cares! Good luck to ya!
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