acd303 Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 6 months has passed since breakup. No contacts, no nothings and i think it will stay like this, each day passes and i care less.. Yesterday i saw some pictures of my ex in facebook... She go fat... it kinda boosts my ego and i feel great today:) am i a bad person?
utterer of lies Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 6 months has passed since breakup. No contacts, no nothings and i think it will stay like this, each day passes and i care less.. Yesterday i saw some pictures of my ex in facebook... She go fat... it kinda boosts my ego and i feel great today:) am i a bad person? Yes, but not because of the fact mentioned above.
joseffrost Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 I had the opposite experience - I saw a photo of my ex on FB last week that made me think she looked even better than before, so several glasses of re wine later I had descended into a spiral of self pity and thought I was an idiot for losing her. Then I realised that she looked exactly the same as before, and it was just because she wan't 'mine' anymore that hurt. As Morrissey says "I want the one I can't have". It's common.
Author acd303 Posted July 17, 2009 Author Posted July 17, 2009 I had the opposite experience - I saw a photo of my ex on FB last week that made me think she looked even better than before, so several glasses of re wine later I had descended into a spiral of self pity and thought I was an idiot for losing her. Then I realised that she looked exactly the same as before, and it was just because she wan't 'mine' anymore that hurt. As Morrissey says "I want the one I can't have". It's common. Morrisey also says "yes there are things worse in life, than never being someone's sweetie". Great singer, i love his lyrics. Helped me a lot in this horrible period of life.
joseffrost Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 Re: your original post, he also says "You're the one for me fatty!"... He is great though, I've also been listening to a hell of a lot of Dylan lately. He's got a song for every stage of the healing process.
brock9911 Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 I dont seem to even have much of a reaction to my ex's photos. i think its because its still fairly new to me and i have a lot of anger towards her. if your gonna quote people "but in my experience fat girls do way more" i always liked that one. all the other photos i ripped up and burned. a nice symbol of our burning relationship. go to hell bitch
Giha Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 It makes me feel better knowing that I look better since I started working out, than knowing she got fat or something. I really don't care how she looks, I love her just the same
Author acd303 Posted July 17, 2009 Author Posted July 17, 2009 It makes me feel better knowing that I look better since I started working out, than knowing she got fat or something. I really don't care how she looks, I love her just the same Guess I wouldn't care if i didn't love her. Just trying to be honest with what i feel right now.
sedgwick Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 I "but in my experience fat girls do way more" Offensive!!
brock9911 Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 oh its not offensive, its a movie quote. its a joke.
Phateless Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 6 months has passed since breakup. No contacts, no nothings and i think it will stay like this, each day passes and i care less.. Yesterday i saw some pictures of my ex in facebook... She go fat... it kinda boosts my ego and i feel great today:) am i a bad person? lol not at all. Btw, it's The Cure that usually helps me through breakups. Try Pictures of You or From the Edge of the Deep Green Sea.
EmperorR Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 I have no pictures of my ex, deleted ripped up,hard drive swiped clean over and over again
ON MY OWN Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 6 months has passed since breakup. No contacts, no nothings and i think it will stay like this, each day passes and i care less.. Yesterday i saw some pictures of my ex in facebook... She go fat... it kinda boosts my ego and i feel great today:) am i a bad person? LOL, go to my thread titled "Chatterbox". Feel free to rip on her!! Lol..btw its called coping and getting through. You are NOT a bad person...It has been almost 3 months since my fiance and I broke up, so you and I are around in the same stages. Remember, you are wonderful!! I am a woman who has always considered everyones thoughts and feelings, always. You wouldnt know it by the new thread LOL...just therapeutic, and thats why we are here, to help one another...hope to see you in "Chatterbox". Have a wonderful day!! ~ OMO ~
BCCA Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 I have no pictures of my ex, deleted ripped up,hard drive swiped clean over and over again Same, that crap was all destroyed within 2 days of the breakup. Anything found afterward was immediately burned as well.
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