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Married seven years, eye opening sexual experimentation.

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mindofclover New Member

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Ok, here's my story. I was married seven years ago when I was 25 and my wife was 19. In the past seven years we've had our share of marital problems as I'm sure all couples have, but in that time have also grown as a couple. I can honestly say that I am more deeply in love with her now that at any other point, and am quite sure my level of affection will only continue to grow.

 

The problem I have is we have always wanted children together but I suspect I am sterile. I have not been tested but recently found out that both of my brothers are sterile, and after seven years of trying I have not been able to impregnate my wife. After thinking long and hard about the situation I sat down and had a conversation with my wife about possibly sleeping with another man in an attempt to become pregnant so we could have a child together. My love for her and my desire to give her what she wanted led me to this decision, and at the time I fully supported any choice she made.

 

At first she was unsure, but was willing to try just about anything to conceive a child, even going so far as admitting she thought about cheating on me on several occasions in an attempt to get pregnant without me knowing that I wasn't the father. This admission shocked me, but also saddened me that as a man I could not provide her with the family she desired.

 

So, after careful consideration we set out looking for an individual for her to sleep with. She was very nervous and unsure and asked me to be there for her to make sure she would not be hurt in any way. I agreed, and for some reason found myself strangely aroused by the thought of her being with another man. I'm not sure exactly why, maybe it's my feeling of total dejection and immasculation in not being able to provide her with a child, but whatever the reason I found some type of sexual thrill at the idea of seeing her with someone else.

 

This past week we had an individual over to our home and she performed oral sex on him. She was too nervous to go all the way, and wanted to build a comfort level with the man before she took the next step. After he left we had the most amazing sex of our life. I was blown away by the entire experience, it almost seemed unreal. Since then we've had an abnormal amount of sex, and I've seen a complete change in the disposition of my wife, she is more confident and has a radiance about her.

 

But now during sex it seems she wants me to talk dirty to her about sleeping with the other man. She wants me to ask her if she wants his penis, which is thicker than mine, inside of her. She also admitted to me that she was very aroused by this man and the experience and has been thinking about having sex with him. Now I'm concerned that this new sex drive has nothing to do with our relationship, but is her acting out her desire for this other man with me. She continually tells me that she loves me more than anything and she'd never leave me or hurt me, but I'm starting to have second thoughts and don't know how to tell her without upsetting her. I love this newfound passion and don't want to strip this energy from our relationship, but at the same time I don't want to ruin the beautiful marriage we've built together.

 

Maybe I'm just being paranoid, after making love sixteen times yesterday she told me that no one has ever made her feel the way I do. It's possible that by growing and allowing her to fulfill her desires with this man I'm doing what is best for us, but I don't know the answers anymore. I guess I'm just looking for advice from anyone who has experienced something like this in their life. Thank you for taking the time to read this.

Toodamnpragmatic Established Member

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Is this a troll thread?:confused:

 

Are people that stoopid???? How about seeing a Dr? Had me until 16X's in one day..... Troll!!!

michelangelo Established Member

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fertility clinic? Nah, let's being a guy over and you eff him.

 

Yeah, this makes no sense.

 

A troll from Trollorado.

Girlygal Established Member

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Whats a troll? Totally agree this sounds like BS.

Toodamnpragmatic Established Member

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Whats a troll? Totally agree this sounds like BS.

 

A troll is someone who posts just that: BS to get a rise and comments from people and start a conversation on what is often a fictitious premise.....

Girlygal Established Member

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ahhhhh i see. Then yes i think this is a "troll"

HsMomma Established Member

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OP - might want to take a break from the Viagra - 16x in one day? Haven't you seen the commercials: "Contact your physician if you have an erection lasting more than 4 hours..."

 

Duuuuuuude, please!:lmao:

JamesM Established Member

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Assuming this is real, no action should have been taken until it is proven that you are sterile.

 

And based on many other stories (that are real), this experimentation will cause you to lose your wife.

Athena Established Member

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Yep, who would assume they were sterile without going to see a doctor, I mean, come on -- both brothers sterile but he couldn't go?'

Sounds like a Troll to me... 16 times, lol, and sounds like he's sexing himself up on our boards... ugh...:sick:

HsMomma Established Member

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Yep, who would assume they were sterile without going to see a doctor, I mean, come on -- both brothers sterile but he couldn't go?'

Sounds like a Troll to me... 16 times, lol, and sounds like he's sexing himself up on our boards... ugh...:sick:

 

Ok, so....ewwwwww!:sick::sick:

Mr. Lucky Established Member

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After thinking long and hard about the situation I sat down and had a conversation with my wife about possibly sleeping with another man in an attempt to become pregnant so we could have a child together.

It's too bad there aren't any other known ways for couples to deal with infertility :eek: !!!

This past week we had an individual over to our home and she performed oral sex on him. She was too nervous to go all the way, and wanted to build a comfort level with the man before she took the next step.

Comfort level :confused: ???

 

Mr. Lucky

hopesndreams Established Member

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Ok, here's my story. I was married seven years ago when I was 25 and my wife was 19. In the past seven years we've had our share of marital problems as I'm sure all couples have, but in that time have also grown as a couple. I can honestly say that I am more deeply in love with her now that at any other point, and am quite sure my level of affection will only continue to grow.

 

Ding, ding, ding...she was far too young for marriage.

 

The problem I have is we have always wanted children together but I suspect I am sterile. I have not been tested but recently found out that both of my brothers are sterile, and after seven years of trying I have not been able to impregnate my wife. After thinking long and hard about the situation I sat down and had a conversation with my wife about possibly sleeping with another man in an attempt to become pregnant so we could have a child together. My love for her and my desire to give her what she wanted led me to this decision, and at the time I fully supported any choice she made.

 

At first she was unsure, but was willing to try just about anything to conceive a child, even going so far as admitting she thought about cheating on me on several occasions in an attempt to get pregnant without me knowing that I wasn't the father. This admission shocked me, but also saddened me that as a man I could not provide her with the family she desired.

 

So, after careful consideration we set out looking for an individual for her to sleep with. She was very nervous and unsure and asked me to be there for her to make sure she would not be hurt in any way. I agreed, and for some reason found myself strangely aroused by the thought of her being with another man. I'm not sure exactly why, maybe it's my feeling of total dejection and immasculation in not being able to provide her with a child, but whatever the reason I found some type of sexual thrill at the idea of seeing her with someone else.

 

This past week we had an individual over to our home and she performed oral sex on him. She was too nervous to go all the way, and wanted to build a comfort level with the man before she took the next step. After he left we had the most amazing sex of our life. I was blown away by the entire experience, it almost seemed unreal. Since then we've had an abnormal amount of sex, and I've seen a complete change in the disposition of my wife, she is more confident and has a radiance about her.

 

If getting pregnant was the main objective, just doing "it" would have been more impersonal.

 

But now during sex it seems she wants me to talk dirty to her about sleeping with the other man. She wants me to ask her if she wants his penis, which is thicker than mine, inside of her. She also admitted to me that she was very aroused by this man and the experience and has been thinking about having sex with him. Now I'm concerned that this new sex drive has nothing to do with our relationship, but is her acting out her desire for this other man with me. She continually tells me that she loves me more than anything and she'd never leave me or hurt me, but I'm starting to have second thoughts and don't know how to tell her without upsetting her. I love this newfound passion and don't want to strip this energy from our relationship, but at the same time I don't want to ruin the beautiful marriage we've built together.

 

Energy in your relationship built on her doing it with other guys. The "beautiful" marriage has now been stripped away. You are left with 2 people, completely detached from each other. Way to go.

 

Maybe I'm just being paranoid, after making love sixteen times yesterday she told me that no one has ever made her feel the way I do. It's possible that by growing and allowing her to fulfill her desires with this man I'm doing what is best for us, but I don't know the answers anymore. I guess I'm just looking for advice from anyone who has experienced something like this in their life. Thank you for taking the time to read this.

 

HAHA!!! Quite the stallion. Why would she want anyone else again? Oh yeah, to get pregnant. Gotcha.

sxyNYCcpl Established Member

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I am going to go out on a limb here and assume the OP is for real. If you are, PM me and I'll send you to a website that is better equipped to handle this question. My wife and I live a sexually open lifestyle, but most folks here think we're nucking futs for doing so, and may not be able to give the best advice on the topic.

Storyrider Established Member

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What's with the "watching" theme? Nice one. :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

mark982 Established Member

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if this is a true post, i think we all can see were this marriage is headed.

Mr. Lucky Established Member

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What's with the "watching" theme? Nice one. :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Maybe the "Letters to Penthouse" forum had crashed, leaving the OP little alternative but to post here...

 

Mr. Lucky

Storyrider Established Member

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Maybe the "Letters to Penthouse" forum had crashed, leaving the OP little alternative but to post here...

 

Mr. Lucky

Good point. I guess we're his backup plan. Anyone excited yet?

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Sounds like you might have some cukold tendencies....

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