Mermaiden Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 is it bad sign if guy youve dated 5-6 times starts calling a lot less and only texting ? and instead of asking you out for friday or saturday asks to see you on a sunday ? (our fav band is in his town 90 minutes away)
redhighheels Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 Breaking an already established pattern is always a sign - whether it's good or bad, only you can decide, based on your view of the relationship. Has he been asking you out on Sundays more than once? If it's a one time thing, you shouldn't jump to conclusions. Just wait and observe him.
OpenBook Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 You've only just started dating him. He may be dating others - and that's perfectly OK. You should be dating others too, at this early stage of the game! And then there's the Rubber Band Syndrome - a guy will suddenly pull back from a relationship when he feels overwhelmed by what's happening in it. Never underestimate a guy's drive to be autonomous. Don't sweat it. Like a rubber band that stretches out when you pull on it (i.e., him moving away from the R), it will eventually contract again and return to you. Just stay put where you are; don't chase after him trying to relieve the tension in the rubber band. Let him realize what he's pulling away from.
Krytie TV Posted July 18, 2009 Posted July 18, 2009 Or... after a while we just get tired of the act and start regressing to our normal state, whatever that may be is relative. The courting process for many people makes them act in a way that is elevated from their normal state and will eventually wear off. If that's the case, it is no indication on how much he likes you, just more of a regression to the average kind of thing. As for Sunday dates, it sounds to me like he asked you out on a Sunday because there is a band you both like. I don't understand the problem here.
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