sintaga66 Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 Hello, so I don’t have much experience when it comes to relationships, but I met this girl at a 3 day CPR course; she will be 18 in a month(I am 20years old). I find myself quite attracted to her hence I can’t stop thinking about her. We currently have a friendship going on but I am hoping to maybe start a relationship. She has no cell phone and I don’t think her parents would approve maybe because of her Indian culture. (Who knows) Anyways I have her on Facebook where I got the courage to ask her if she would like to get a coffee one day; she replied that she would love to. This, I take it is a good sign or is she maybe just being nice? We are going out next week however I have one problem…I often have nothing to say—my mind will go blank which is weird because I am normally never like this. Maybe it’s because this could lead to something special which is pretty nerve racking causing these awkward moments of *silence.* Does this irritate a girl? Does it show that I’m some boring person with nothing to say? I currently know quite a bit about her so my question is ‘what can I possibly talk to her about?!
JustLooking123 Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 Maybe you have nothing to talk about with her BECAUSE SHE IS SEVENTEEN YEARS OLD.
Confusedalways Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 Pish posh, she will be 18 soon, I say live it up. Conversation will occur naturally, ask about her family, her job, etc. Think of it like this, you know a lot about your best friends, what do you talk to them about?
lilly83 Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 You are both new to each other and dating is about learning about one another. Think of some questions which you can ask her. Ask her about her family, friends, school, things that she likes to do in her spare time, music that she likes, flims that she likes and also talk about dislikes. This is a good way to keep a conversation going and it means that you will learn about her as well. If you find that you share something in common strike up a conversation about the subject. Also by asking lots of questions about her and what she likes and does not like shows that you are interested in her, like her and want to spend time getting to know her. If she smiles a lot, uses lots of eye contact, makes the conversation last, asks questions back and touches your arm etc that is a good sign and shows that she is interested back.
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