dpizzle Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 Long story short, I met this girl and we were casually dating for about a month. Things were going well. I was getting to that point where I wanted to take it to the next level but I was being patient cause I dont wanna overwhelm the person. About a week and a half ago I was out with some friends and I met up with her to go to this party. After arriving at the party about 30 mins later she said she had to go it was an emergency her g/f needed help, I kinda over reacted and got upset at her because she had to go(at the time I felt like she just wanted to go). So we got into a little bit of a fight. I said a few things in anger like insulting remarks and she got offended. The next day I felt very bad and knew I made a mistake and txted her saying I was in the wrong basically apologizing for over reacting and how I felt ashamed for the way I acted and how I liked her and cared about her..... Admitting my wrongs & asking her for another chance to see her basically. A couple days later she sent me a text message saying "Dont worry about it" 4-5 days go by and there is no communication between us when I get a text from her saying "Whats up? Let's talk" I responded back saying "Sure what's on your mind?" she replied "Im giving you a chance" I was at a family party so I couldnt call her then so I just replied with "Sounds good, I'll call you" A few days go by and I text her to see what she's up to. Shes out with friends. Today I try calling her, she doesnt pick up, I get a text message back from her "Whats up? You called?" I replied back with "Was just thinking of you and was wondering if you wanted to hang out like before" Now it seems like she doesnt want to talk to me? I think I probably should have called her sooner then waiting a few days.. Suggestions on what to do or say?
iwanttolive Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 Hello.. May I ask why you took so long to get back to her when you said you would call her? I'd be disappointed if I were her because I'd feel like I have no place in your heart and mind...
Confusedalways Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 It sounds like she is not 'interested' per se, but not 'disinterested.' As in, you've ALMOST blown it but you may still have a chance with a lot of apologizing and explaining. The don't worry about it-- followed by 'I'm giving you a chance' sounds just like me. Basically, she was mad but eventually rationalized she'd give you another shot. When you didn't call her, I'd say you just about blew it. I'd take her out to lunch or something and explain you overreacted the first time, you had a busier week than planned when you said you'd call but promise you will make it up to her, etc etc. Gauge reaction from there. Sometimes face to face is better :)
13arkansas Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 Why did you not call her when you said you would. That would have made her really irritated as it is disrespectful.
Bejita463 Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 I just replied with "Sounds good, I'll call you" A few days go by and I text her My opinion.
SoulSearch_CO Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 I think you blew your chance. She was giving you a second chance...you act here like you wanted it. Why didn't you act like it when it counted??? I don't get saying you'd call and then you TEXT her DAYS later? Hello?
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