4givrnt4gtr Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 So, i was in one of my classes and we were talking about relationships. So we got into the topic that to have a healthy relationship, friendships should be discussed specially if you are friends with someone who you have dated or there is some history. i So that brought me to my past, when i kissed a friend of mine whom i still hang out with once in a while. I asked if it was necessary for me to talk about this with my current boyfriend, as I wanted to avoid unecessary insecurity. Sure i get a bit uncomfortable when my friend makes comments to me but in general...its not a big deal Well my pro and classmates all agreed that i had to tell my bf if i didnt want him to find out later nad wonder why i never told him and why was I hiding it from him. Well, i had my laptop there and seeing as how Im gonna have dinner with my friend tomorrow I decided to tell my bf right then and there. I was nervous her was going to feel insecured, or something but instead he was super understanding, telling me that the past is the past etc. I was so surprised at how supportive he is. I have been debating for a while whether i can handle being friends with this guy, I keep coming and going with the decision. He told me that if there was still a friendship then it was worth saving it and that he trusted me 100% God i love that man. But really...do you think he was just being understanding? would you guys be bothered if your gf hangs out with a guy she kissed once?? I want to be the best girlfriend I can be to him and despite his reassurance I dont want him to be uncomfortable with me hanging out with this guy... girls, what would you do? guys...what would think?
boldjack Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 Sounds to me like you have got a "keeper", and should do everything in your power to keep him .
Author 4givrnt4gtr Posted July 16, 2009 Author Posted July 16, 2009 Sounds to me like you have got a "keeper", and should do everything in your power to keep him . Hahaha believe me I am doing everything in my power. Thus this question. He treats me like a princess, we have an amazing time together. I seriously thought men like him were a myth. Sure he isnt perfect, but he is totally perfect for me
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