CARL45 Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 I really need help with this problem. Tomorrow I am suppose to be playing tennis with this woman I am attracted to. I am torn between wanting to tell her I like her romantically or just shutting up. I feel if I tell here she might reject me and not want to deal with me sense we are coworkers and we interact daily. While on the other hand I really just want to get this off my chest and be honest with here instead of playing all these games. What should I do, I really need help?
iwanttolive Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 Why not just chill and enjoy the time spend together? You'd get a clue of whether she's into you and let the relationship progress naturally.. You might come off as being too forward if out of the blue you tell her that you like her. Have you ever shown that you're interested in her?
carhill Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 Experience talking here... 1. Do not tell her; show her. Easiest way to show her is to ask her to lunch. Whatever her response is, smile. It's not a marriage proposal; it's lunch. 2. Do not contemplate; act. Contemplation leads to pedestal-building which leads to unrealistic expectations which leads to solo wanking. Pay the receptionist on the way out
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