HeartBroken928 Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 My boyfriend from 8 months went to south carolina, he lived with me for 5 months then decided to go back to south carolina. his ex girl friend came so he could see his daughter. she wasnt plaining on geting back together with him. she told me that he had slept with her the first night she got there. but he still called me behind her back. me an his ex girl friend has been talking and she told me that i could do so much better then him she told me that she was tired of his lies and him cheating. she told me all the things he would say about me. and most of it kinda hurt. i love him alot andi cant let him go. he still calls me and talks to me and he tells me that he is sorry for everything he did to me. when he lived with me he gave me anything i wonted he was so good to me. there was a few times i would try to break up with him and he would beg me not to break up with him. he has told me that he has never had a girl friend like me before. and that he wont to be with me forever. but he isnt american he is mexican. and i am american. he was the one who took my virginity. he treated me so good when he was with me. i dont get why he would do this to me. i told him everything that me and his ex talked about and he said that she was lying. she told me that he has told her to go to hell. he has never talked to me like that. and they have a daughter together but she said he dont wont no part in his daughter life. he has told me that he would wait for me. for when i turned 18 because he wonts to marry me.. monday is when his ex girl friend called me. i told her that he had been calling me and i gave her the times that he has called me and he calls her when he is with his friends. or when she isnt there. and then she was telling me that i could do better then him because she has known him for 3 yrs. she said she thinks he still cares about me because he called her my name. she told me that she was leaving in a couple of weeks to find her own place. because they both live at his brothers house. and he is happy that she is leaving. he still has been calling me. and asking me what im doing and everything.. we are now still friends. i dont know if i should wait and be patient and let things go easy and see what happens.. or just tell him to leave me along. some ppl has told me to get under his skin and ignore him for a while. and let him wounder about me.... and that if he comes back then he does care... Will some one please help me.
Fayi Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 well, I don't think you should listen too much to what either of them say (BF or his ex), you should listen to your own gut feelings, and probably ask yourself: Do you want to be with a man who doesn't want to be part of his own daughters life? and sleeps with his ex while still in a relationship with you? I think you deserve better than someone who'd hurt you like that, what do you think? I think you should focus less on his feelings (if he cares, if he loves you etc..) and think more about what you want. To me, he honestly sounds like someone who's more drama and trouble than his worth.. and I bet you can do much better anyhow, just my two cents..
LoveLace Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 He's playing both you and the Ex, plus he's a bad father. Frankly both of you should completely cut him out of your lives.
Lucky_One Posted July 18, 2009 Posted July 18, 2009 Please use two forms of reliable birth control consistently.
MSUE Posted July 18, 2009 Posted July 18, 2009 You are so young...and naive...its nothing but games...he doesn't care about you or the virginity he took away..apparently he doesn't even care about his own child...why would you want to be with such a loser...look how young u are how short this so called relationship is and all the heartache you ahave been dealing with...is it worth it? I highly doubt so...focus on school...make a life for yourself...the right man will come when the time is right.
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