Illiandra Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 I was dating a guy for about 7 months, things fell apart around New Years due to my work schedule. He had asked to see me about 4-5 times around the holidays and i was swamped with work. Long story short, after the holidays i called and he never called back, he just texted me happy xmas. Fast forward its July, and i get a friend request on myspace, he then messages me to see how i have been. Then a week later after chatting on myspace, he sends me a text to see if i wanted to go out with him and a friend of his. I was unavailable and told him perhaps another weekend we can go out. I am very confused, He disappeared for about 6 months and now he is trying to contact me via the computer, and also texting me. Should I even bother with it? I never got closure, so perhaps i was thinking if we hang out i can see what happened? Should i initiate the hang out for next week or should i sit back and see if he asks me out again?
NopeNah Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 Do really feel you need "closure" after 6mo NC? Are you seeing anyone else? Is he seeing anyone else? Do you still want to try and reconcile with your ex? Do you feel he deserves to see you after just kinda "disapearing" out of your life, like he did?
boogieboy Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 Unless you are trying to get back with him, theres NO reason to hang with him. You dont need closure. Your closure happened when you never heard from him after xmas.
Beeotch Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 I was dating a guy for about 7 months, things fell apart around New Years due to my work schedule. He had asked to see me about 4-5 times around the holidays and i was swamped with work. Long story short, after the holidays i called and he never called back, he just texted me happy xmas. Fast forward its July, and i get a friend request on myspace, he then messages me to see how i have been. Then a week later after chatting on myspace, he sends me a text to see if i wanted to go out with him and a friend of his. I was unavailable and told him perhaps another weekend we can go out. I am very confused, He disappeared for about 6 months and now he is trying to contact me via the computer, and also texting me. Should I even bother with it? I never got closure, so perhaps i was thinking if we hang out i can see what happened? Should i initiate the hang out for next week or should i sit back and see if he asks me out again? How do you feel about him? You haven't said whether or not you felt bad he didn't speak to you or that you missed him or it was hard for you or you love him or want him...
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