Rebecca2009 Posted July 15, 2009 Posted July 15, 2009 so there is this guy at work that ive been getting to know, and he seems to find me hysterical (and kind of nudges or touches my arm when he does laugh) and we've gone to the movies together (though he had also invited another guy that we are friends with at work) and suggested that we do karaoke together sometime, etc. he's also in a band and invited me to a bar he played at. i went (with my brother and his gf) and he hugged me a couple times at the bar (when i said hi to him and one time when he walked by). he also waits to walk with me when we go on breaks or lunch at work. but then he also talks alot about girls around me. the other day he mentioned how he had met this girl at the court (he was called in for jury duty) and that he had facebooked her etc. he also talks about how he misses having a gf sometimes. i feel like he is sort of interested, but then why would he talk about other girls to me? is it possible he is trying to make me jealous? what do you guys think?
Thaddeus Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 He's into you. I don't think he's trying to make you jealous, but I do think that he's sending out feelers to determine your interest level.
littlewhiterose Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 I agree with Thaddeus. He mentioned the jury duty/facebook girl as a way of dangling the wire. Your guy is throwing chum in the water, and so far, you're not biting!
Author Rebecca2009 Posted July 16, 2009 Author Posted July 16, 2009 so what should i say next time he mentions a girl to show im interested? im so confused! haha
Brady_to_Moss Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 You know he likes you...you have to approach him and give him hint that you like him as well...hell as him on a date....he would love for a girl to ask him on a date...all guys would yet girls never do it
Thaddeus Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 so what should i say next time he mentions a girl to show im interested? im so confused! haha He: Yes, there's this very attractive girl that I saw in court. You: What did you like about her? He: She's got a nice smile. You: Mine's better. He: Yes. It is.
littlewhiterose Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 He: Yes, there's this very attractive girl that I saw in court. You: What did you like about her? He: She's got a nice smile. You: Mine's better. He: Yes. It is. Boom! There you go.
Author Rebecca2009 Posted July 16, 2009 Author Posted July 16, 2009 haha yeah. ok. he seemed even more obvious today. he was like "i only like going to the movies or to darian lake if i have a girlfriend". haha. and then when i mentioned i was going to house sit at a place that had a pool and i couldn't wait to go swimming he was like "oh man, i haven't gone swimming in so long . . . " so i said he should come over and swim with me then.
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