norajane Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 we have been living together for around 2 years b4 we got married...but her mom was paying for it not us. So you're ok with it as long as you're not paying for it? And you KNEW this was something she felt she needed, and you were perfectly happy to reap the benefits, but now you want your wife to change? Did you ever live in an apartment building where the landlord had a cleaning and maintenance crew to vacuum the stairwells and change lightbulbs and mow the lawn? You were paying for those people through your rent. Did you ever take your car to be washed and cleaned on the inside? It's the same concept. Do you ever take taxis? Take your shirts to the dry cleaner instead of washing and ironing them at home? Ever pay $3 for a cup of coffee you can make at home? Ever hired someone to clean your gutters or paint your living room? You already pay people to cook for you and clean up after your dinner. Try and wrap your mind around the fact that you already pay people to do things you don't want to do all the time.
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