heartbrokenxxxx Posted July 15, 2009 Posted July 15, 2009 well, my last post was advice on whether i should meet up with my ex as friends as i emailed him suggesting it after bumping into him after 3 months NC. i decided to not meet up with him and set myself not to reply to his next email as the advice was not to meet him as nothing but pain will come out of it as i wasnt over him and lying to myself and to him i want friendship which i agreed with. i thought he was ignoring me as he didnt reply for over a week to my last email, but he did last week which upset me and then the other day he wrote to my sister on facebook chat being friendly with her and text me last night at 2am giving me his new number and saying he hopes im ok and to take it easy. im really annoyed i asked to be his friend as im not over him and everytime he gets in contact with me or my family it upsets me all over again. i no its my fault as i suggested being friends, but its biting me in the ass now cos i didnt really want friendship, just wanted an excuse to meet him so i could let us leave on good terms (as we left on bad terms) and have some closure and i admit even to make out im doing great and doing all these great things with my life to see if he misses me. i dont want him to contact me again or my family as each time it upsets me as im thinking of him, but dont no how i should go about it. shall i keep ignoring him and hopefully he wont get hold of me again and ask to meet? or let him no how i feel? even though he is oblivious i even feeling this way. one final thing i'm going to say, be careful what you ask for cos you just might get it!
SRTtoZ Posted July 15, 2009 Posted July 15, 2009 This one is pretty easy. Tell him you dont want to see or hear from him anymore because it only causes pain. Ex's shouldnt remain friends...if they couldnt be more than that, friends will NEVER work except cause you pain. Maybe in the future it can work out but not right now. TELL HIM. I hate how girls beat around the bush.
Author heartbrokenxxxx Posted July 15, 2009 Author Posted July 15, 2009 yer i no i have realised we can never be friends thats why i have changed my mind to meet him. im only questioning how i go about the situation as i dont want him to know hes still causing me pain after 4 months when its clear hes over me now. also i dont want to look stupid for saying one minute that it would be good to meet up as friends, and then saying no i cant cos it hurts too much. i dont want him to get the satisfaction of it.
SRTtoZ Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 Well do what I said but instead of saying it causes you pain, tell him that you're over him and you want him to move on...Its over. Soemthing like that.
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