nedian Posted July 15, 2009 Posted July 15, 2009 I'm not the one to ask advice, not friends not family, and def. not strangers but I am in a bind. My girlfriend of over a year and a half left me, I don't really understand why and can't get her to talk about it. She has issues opening up and I've been trying to no avail to figure it out when we talk all she says is that I hurt her. I try not to and I know like many others I have issues(no one can claim not to even psychologists talk to other psycologists). I've worked on them and got alot of them under control. What I really need to know is should I just leave her alone I mean she claims I hurt her and I have to assume I do even when trying to work things out, she's very emotional, and I'm not really overly emotional. I love her I know I do because 4 or 5 years ago doing this wouldn't even cross my mind, hell a year and a half ago not even. So it breaks down to should I stay or should I go I hate seeing her suffer and it seems I can't do anything. She said some harsh things mainly when I explained how hard I was taking it and the fact I had drank myself to sleep the last 5 nights back to back. They hurt and I want her out of my life but it's very hard to keep moving in that dirrection. Should I just let her go, or should I keep trying to get back with her I don't intentionly hurt her and it's the last thing I would want to do. Or should U just let her go and hope it really does make her happy?
amymarieca Posted July 15, 2009 Posted July 15, 2009 Sorry to hear you are in this situation. Break ups make you feel pretty horrible. I don't think you should try to get her back. Usually when women make a decision about something, their mind is set on it. You would most likely only feel worse if she rejects you again. The relationship is already bad. I think you should move on and find happiness somewhere else.
Author nedian Posted July 15, 2009 Author Posted July 15, 2009 Thanks I just wanted to hear it from an outside source I figured the same but hate giving up when I love someone. Thanks again.
adzent Posted July 15, 2009 Posted July 15, 2009 If you truly love her, no in my opinion. I would never give up on my current girlf because i am so in love, but she seems to be messing you around abit. She wont tell you why she ended it? reasons? Listen if she wont tell you, and she wont get back with you, just move on dude. There are other people out there, go and be happy with your life and what you have.
13arkansas Posted July 15, 2009 Posted July 15, 2009 Sorry to hear about the break up, it sucks. I'd leave her along and go no contact with her, as you will heal quicker, and also try not to drink as that is a big depressant and will make you feel much worse.
Author nedian Posted July 16, 2009 Author Posted July 16, 2009 Thanks again for all the advice for some reason this does make it easier to deal with when u talk about it.
adzent Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 Thanks again for all the advice for some reason this does make it easier to deal with when u talk about it. Opening up always does. It gives relief, and no harm can come because its on the internet to complete strangers.
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