wellbustmybuttons Posted July 15, 2009 Posted July 15, 2009 i have a way of messing things up between me & my guy friends sex is usually where i mess things up.. because i go from being a great friend to be great in the sheets but ive never been a girlfriend before.. i messed things up with my last guy friend by being friends with benefits with him, to sum it up the sex was great he wasnt over his ex and we're not even friends anymore.. i've had these feeling for my best friend for years but i've talked myself into believing that they arent real, but i just graduated highschool and im moving away & these feeling have re-submurged about a month after this thing with the previous friend & i havent been able to get rid of them & i dont know if i want to b/c i've relized that he may be a good guy for me if he feels the same way about me, we love the same things we love the same music & music is soo important to the both of us our humor is the same we love the same movies & our personalities are right on whenever we're together we're always smiling & having a good time even if the other is in a bad mood. I dont know i dont want to ruin anything with him because he is defanately a friend for life.. but who knows what could happen if we try anything "romantically".. i dont know feelings are confusing.. ~~Peace love.. thanks for the help if you reply to this.
imakemistakes Posted July 15, 2009 Posted July 15, 2009 i have a way of messing things up between me & my guy friends sex is usually where i mess things up.. because i go from being a great friend to be great in the sheets but ive never been a girlfriend before.. i messed things up with my last guy friend by being friends with benefits with him, to sum it up the sex was great he wasnt over his ex and we're not even friends anymore.. i've had these feeling for my best friend for years but i've talked myself into believing that they arent real, but i just graduated highschool and im moving away & these feeling have re-submurged about a month after this thing with the previous friend & i havent been able to get rid of them & i dont know if i want to b/c i've relized that he may be a good guy for me if he feels the same way about me, we love the same things we love the same music & music is soo important to the both of us our humor is the same we love the same movies & our personalities are right on whenever we're together we're always smiling & having a good time even if the other is in a bad mood. I dont know i dont want to ruin anything with him because he is defanately a friend for life.. but who knows what could happen if we try anything "romantically".. i dont know feelings are confusing.. ~~Peace love.. thanks for the help if you reply to this. The reason it always ends badly is because you end up being a **** buddy and not much else. He won't respect you if you go down this road. My advice: ask him out. If he says no, then that's that. BUT AT LEAST YOU TRIED. Never have any regrets in this very short life.
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