aloneanddepressed Posted July 15, 2009 Posted July 15, 2009 does this sound a bit fishy to you or what? the reason I ask is because this new guy I mentioned in a few of my other threads, he talked to me Sunday evening, and just sent this text. right off the bat, it sounds a bit fishy. he said" I've been trying to call you, but my phone is messed up and wont let me call out..just want to say hi". this could be true i suppose, just got a odd feeling about it. just the other day he was telling me how great sprint phones are and they never stop working. I sent a text back, and he won't say much. anyways, not that I really care, I do not want to continue talking to him at the moment, but just curious what this sounds like? Just wanted an opinion. thanks
amymarieca Posted July 15, 2009 Posted July 15, 2009 What do you think could possibly be the problem with this? If he is lying is that really some sort of deal breaker? I've been in several situations where my phone doesn't work and I can't explain why. You are reading way too much into this.
Author aloneanddepressed Posted July 15, 2009 Author Posted July 15, 2009 Yes, its possible I'm reading too much into it..probably so. Well, um, if he is lying about that, that's not a good way to start getting to know someone. Its just he said he would call since Sunday night and its Tuesday night. Plus, he just got done telling me his phone is great and never goes out or anything. He was very short with his text messages as well. He seems really shy and hasn't dated much, so the reason I wondered is maybe he is scared or something, and was trying to avoid real conversation on phone, or he is having second thoughts about getting to know me. oh well, yeah who cares:) What do you think could possibly be the problem with this? If he is lying is that really some sort of deal breaker? I've been in several situations where my phone doesn't work and I can't explain why. You are reading way too much into this.
saira Posted July 15, 2009 Posted July 15, 2009 TRUST ur instincts and run. ur heart can tell u one thing but whats up ur brain is what's true. u've made mind up anyways by stating u dont want to continue. its good u know what u want if this is not it move on.
amymarieca Posted July 15, 2009 Posted July 15, 2009 This is one of the most common mistakes that women make at the beginning of a relationship- analyzing every detail way too much. Just let the chips fall where they will. You are definitely going to scare him off if you act this way.
Thornton Posted July 15, 2009 Posted July 15, 2009 If he can text, he can call... if he didn't have a signal or something he wouldn't be able to text either. Usually people refuse to call when they don't want to be overheard by their gf or something! Has he done anything else suspicious? I wouldn't dump him over this, but I'd avoid getting too involved until you suss him out, and be alert for other suspicious things.
13arkansas Posted July 15, 2009 Posted July 15, 2009 Do you know the phrase 'he's just not that into you'? Well, I don't think he's really that into you. And I think you know this deep down. When a man cares he will treat you with respect and care and you will not see red flags all over the place.
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