nicolas465 Posted November 6, 2003 Posted November 6, 2003 hi... I think i'm in deeep ka ka here lol. my girlfriend has been calling me lesss and less, and when we talk our convo's aren't exactly fun or interesting anymore...Anyways, so the other day i was talking to my gf on the phone.. and i dunt' remember what we were talking about but she says "you know.. i don't mind if you like another girl at school" and i was like.. wa? wat's that supposed to mean?! Does this mean she likes another guy at school or something and i'm supposed to be ok w/it cause she said she's ok w/me liking another girl?! pllllzzz any advice here, this girl...has even told me she loves me soooo wat's the deal?
monkey00 Posted November 6, 2003 Posted November 6, 2003 from the sounds of it...i think she's fallen out of love with you when she said she ddindt mind if you liked someone else i think it was hinting that she has no problem with it even if you did find another gf when 2 people start to lose interest in each other, they will usually have less and less to talk about ( the convo gets more boring each time you guys talk). That doesnt necessarily have to be with couples, but can be with friends also.
ThisGirlNameKD Posted November 6, 2003 Posted November 6, 2003 My question is, why didn't you ask her what she truly meant?
Author nicolas465 Posted November 6, 2003 Author Posted November 6, 2003 i did, i siad what do you mean, and she said 'oh nothing, i was just saying that i can't really do anything if you like another girl' , but her attitude while saying it didnt' sound too convincing.. she sounded like u know.. like she rehearsed it or something...
ThisGirlNameKD Posted November 6, 2003 Posted November 6, 2003 Then ask her if she's implying that the both of you should start seeing other people.
Author nicolas465 Posted November 6, 2003 Author Posted November 6, 2003 i wanna but i dont' want to like mess this up.. if she really does love me and i ask her that then she'll think that i dont' lke her anymore.. and that could be bad
ThisGirlNameKD Posted November 6, 2003 Posted November 6, 2003 Well, you know you're not implying anything by asking her that. Just let her know that you're misunderstanding her and ask if she's implying that both of you see other people. If you have a misunderstanding, how do you suppose it gets cleared if you don't talk to her about it? You can ask us what we think, but we can't read her mind.
wiseOLDman Posted November 6, 2003 Posted November 6, 2003 nicolas, it could well be that someone has told her that you've been seeing another girl. Get it out in the open. If it's a misunderstanding then all is well. If she's losing interest, wouldn't you want to know that sooner rather than later?
RedneckRomeo Posted November 7, 2003 Posted November 7, 2003 i was thinking the same thing wiseOLDman... just because she's saying that doesn't mean she's falling out of love with you nicolas - she may, but i think there is a better chance that she thinks you're interested in others - and she just wants you to be happy, so thats why she's saying that. only real way to find out is to do it yourself. maybe she wants YOU to call her more - maybe thats why she's calling you less... maybe its partly your fault for making the conversations less fun, and this might lead her to believe you have 'other' interests, and might be a reason for telling you its ok to see others - like i said - maybe she thinks you ARE seeing others. maybe she's having a hard time in life - and realizes it may be getting to you the way she's acting - and giving you the chance to get out if you want - making it OK for you to do it... basically though - these all COULD be true, but only you can find out for sure whats going on.
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