Cristoforo Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 So there's a girl at my work who I have a crush on. She went to the bars with her friends for her birthday and I was invited to go. We ended up flirting at the end of the night and we made out for a second. She also put her hand down my pants and grabbed my you know what, and she also kept squeezing my ass repeatedly. She was getting very physical. We french kissed for like a second or two before she pulled back and said that we shouldn't do this because we work together and if we didn't work together, she would totally keep making out with me. I respected her decision. Before that, I basically told her I had a crush on her and that I thought she was sexy. We were both under the influence of alcohol but what I said was the truth, and I enjoyed kissing her and flirting with her. She just kept saying that we can't do this because we work together. I didn't see her for a week after that because we weren't in the office at the same time. When I finally did see her, I thought she was going to be weird towards me but she acted just the way she did before this happened. She was normal and friendly towards me and we even had lunch together with other co-workers. She hasn't said anything about the other night, but I still keep thinking about it. Should I approach her and say something? I'm not going to apologize because I feel that I did nothing wrong and I enjoyed her company and attention. But I don't want things to be awkward. I know they don't seem like it right now, but do you think I should approach her and just acknowledge that I don't want things to be weird between us? Also, was it just the alcohol talking or is she somewhat attracted to me as well? I know no matter how drunk I was, if I wasn't attracted to a girl, I wouldn't touch her, let alone put my hand down her pants!! I'm just confused and I don't want to make things worse.
espec10001 Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 Just convince yourself that you were drunk and none of it really happened. Then it won't be awkward.
Author Cristoforo Posted July 14, 2009 Author Posted July 14, 2009 I don't want to convince myself it never happened because I actually liked it!
2sure Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 She has convinced herself it didnt happen so as to avoid being awkward. But even though she was drinking and acting in a way she wouldnt normally...its possible she is attracted as well. After all, she stuck her hands down your pants! OR she stuck her hand down your pants simply to toy with you after you told her you had a crush on her. Either way, she is embarrassed and this is how she is dealing with it. Asking her out would do two good things regardless of the outcome: She will not feel like such a skank regarding her behavior. She will know you dont think she has anything to be embarrassed about and that you still like her. This alone will put you in a good light. She may turn you down and base that on "working together" which is valid. But you should let her know you're still interested.
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