MO3434 Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 Ok here my story. Me and my ex girlfriend got into a huge fight about a month ago that ended in a screaming match. We both decided mutually it was not right to be together at this time. Now fastforward to the present...I am 20 and my ex is 19 (we are both still young i know)...I am quite confused. I like to call it the seesaw effect. When she wants me back i dont want her...but when she starts to move on, I feel the pain and want to still have her in my life. I have been in relationships since i was a senior in high school and am now going to be a junior in college...I told her i just want to be single for a while...but the thought of us never talking again is so painful :( we constantly argue and fight still...we go from telling each other we shouldn't talk to one of us giving in and contacting each other... I feel like i just need my space to be single...another note on this situation is that me and her have been long distance (over 1900 miles) for the past 6 months...in 25 days we will both be returning home and things will be normal again... I dont want to lose her though...it seems like a waste to throw away all we overcame just because of this...but it also scares me to be tied down at this point in my life... I dont know what to do, we said we werent going to talk to each other for a while this morning (but i mean that could change by tonight knowing us lol) some advice would be very thankful From, a lost mind
robinincarolina Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 Sounds like you really don't know what you want. Its natural to feel that way when you see someone you care about moving on, but are you really being fair to her if you don't really want to be tied down. Take some time apart. 30 days and then see how you feel. Then you will have time to figure out if she is what you really want and so will she. Sometimes working it out together is not what works. The reason for this is the problem is in us as an individual, not in us as a couple.
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