Lishy Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 I was right about him. We were supposed to meet up Saturday night and on Saturday I did not call him as I wanted to see if he called/text me to make arrangements. I was out with my girlfriends and he was out with his friends and we were going to meet up, we had spoken about it all week. On Saturday, no calls, no texts and at 11pm he sends me a text saying "where were you then? I hope wherever you are you are having a good time. Night night" and I tried to call him and he had turned his phone off!! The next day he text me saying "Do you have the hump with me I couldnt bare not to hear from my sexy legs again" What the fk!!!!!!!!! I replied that he didnt text and he blamed me for not texting him and then asked if he could take me out this week!!! I think not Sonny Jim! Is there a name for this type of guy lol
Lizzie60 Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 a name.. hummm... 'jerk' maybe.. I hate it when they do that..
Author Lishy Posted July 14, 2009 Author Posted July 14, 2009 why do they do that though? He even tried telling me I was scared to meet him?!?!?!?!?!
Lizzie60 Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 why do they do that though? He even tried telling me I was scared to meet him?!?!?!?!?! Go figure.. Aaah les hommes!!!
skjd1220 Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 I've run into a few of these online lately too. I can't decide if these guys are just playing a sick game or they are really crazy. Just cut and run now and stop communicating with him. I let one of these situations go on for about 2 weeks and it was completely frusterating. He'd beg to see me and then I wouldn't hear from him or if I did, he would suddenly turn things around on me. It was truly bizarre. You have to wonder why they bother wasting their time this way.
OpenBook Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 We were supposed to meet up Saturday night and on Saturday I did not call him as I wanted to see if he called/text me to make arrangements. I was out with my girlfriends and he was out with his friends and we were going to meet up, we had spoken about it all week. On Saturday, no calls, no texts and at 11pm he sends me a text saying "where were you then? I hope wherever you are you are having a good time. Night night" and I tried to call him and he had turned his phone off!! Lishy, just a thought. During the previous week, were YOU the one who was calling/texting HIM all the time? Was it YOU who kept bringing up Saturday night? If so, you essentially "trained" him to wait for YOU to initiate the contact, and I think you should cut him some slack. He apparently has a whole different take from you on what happened... even though you're both viewing the same non-events (). But if not - if HE was the one who was calling/texting you all week, and HE was the one always bringing up the subject of meeting up on Saturday night - then he's Psycho Dude and you need to get the hell away from him and his ridiculous mind games. The truth is usually somewhere in the middle... no idea where it is, in your case. Just my two-pence.
Author Lishy Posted July 14, 2009 Author Posted July 14, 2009 OB it was a 50/50 thing regarding the contact, we would both initiate but it was HIM who suggested meeting and him who kept making reference to it and I even said to him that I bet he would not come out and he said he definately would! I do know that when a guy is interested you will know and I felt it some days and not others ... It was almost like he was scared of getting involved! I cant explain it. Oh well, his loss!
huck Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 One word - DORK !!. Whenever i hook up with someone - either on a date or with my buds - ill send a text to confirm we are definetly meeting up the night before - just being polite really.. Like you said - his loss !...
2sunny Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 i guess if the guy isn't giving AHEAD of time a firm time, day and location - he hasn't actually asked for a date. this one is a dork! i think he was testing to see if you might consider a booty call.
Trialbyfire Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 Do you have the hump with meLishy, what does this mean?
clv0116 Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 why do they do that though? He even tried telling me I was scared to meet him?!?!?!?!?! For what it's worth, even though SMS is usually good reliability it's not, by design. assured of 100% or timely delivery.
Author Lishy Posted July 14, 2009 Author Posted July 14, 2009 Lishy, what does this mean? It means are you upset with me
Trialbyfire Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 It means are you upset with meThanks. Is there a name for this type of guy lolYes. LAZY!
boldjack Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 Liz, I love it when you speak French!! L, dump this guy.
Kamille Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 ahhh.... While I agree with the popular opinion that the guy is a bit of duffus, I cannot help but want to play devil's advocate. Because... well, to be honest, I'm not sure how your plans could have been considered "date plans". You had both planned to be out with other people and then meet up? Sounds pretty casual to me. And as such, I'm not sure why you felt inclined to test his interest by not contacting him first. Or why you sound offended that he turned his phone off (maybe he was in the tube? out of battery?) or that he would have the audacity to ask you out next week. (Perhaps, he thought the missed meet up was a misunderstanding on who should contact who which got all cleared up when you both enounced you expected the other to contact?) I don't know... there is something off about how this whole thing was handled, but I think you bear a bit of responsibility in it. But maybe i missed something. I'm going to go see if you have any other threads about this guy.
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