Hannah86 Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 7 month relationship. I broke up with him 2.5 months ago. He is dropping off a dress that I am wearing to a party on Friday. We have been friendly and have hinted together that maybe we will get back together in the future, but it is about 90% both parties playing games. A part of me wants to wear a super tight but casual dress and flip flops to show off my body, which is 10 pounds lighter and sports a fresh tan...but another part of me wants to wear sweatpants and a tshirt to show him I don't give a f*** and throw him for a loop. suggestions?
mark982 Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 if you broke up why are you playing games, and why would you care what he thinks?
2sure Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 I would go for the hot look and act completely uninterested and busy.
Enema Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 Tell him to let himself in when he knocks, but be taking a 5hit when he walks in. That'll confuse him even more no?
Trialbyfire Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 Wear short shorts, a relatively snug t-shirt and flip-flops. Hair down and sexy curls with natural makeup. All nails done nicely, whether acrylic or regular light-coloured polish. Make sure you lightly wear a perfume to remember. It says "I'm casual, comfortable and hawt".
northstar1 Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 7 month relationship. I broke up with him 2.5 months ago. He is dropping off a dress that I am wearing to a party on Friday. We have been friendly and have hinted together that maybe we will get back together in the future, but it is about 90% both parties playing games. A part of me wants to wear a super tight but casual dress and flip flops to show off my body, which is 10 pounds lighter and sports a fresh tan...but another part of me wants to wear sweatpants and a tshirt to show him I don't give a f*** and throw him for a loop. suggestions? well, since you insist on playing games...........why not just leave a note on your door that you've gone out and to leave the dress and go out and hang out with friends.
jerbear Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 Wear short shorts, a relatively snug t-shirt and flip-flops. Hair down and sexy curls with natural makeup. All nails done nicely, whether acrylic or regular light-coloured polish. Make sure you lightly wear a perfume to remember. It says "I'm casual, comfortable and hawt". Nice! Tell him to let himself in when he knocks, but be taking a 5hit when he walks in. That'll confuse him even more no? :lmao: My suggestion: Wear just a white necklace and a coat. A coat that is at most knee length and shows the neck line.
D-Lish Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 Fish nets with a garter, heels, daisy duke short shorts and a wife beater tank!
evaG Posted July 15, 2009 Posted July 15, 2009 I always go for the look hot route. Do the low cut tank and shorts or jean skirt. Nothing says "HAH look at what you missed out on nanananana" more than looking sexy and being confident. I recently spent $800 on 5 pairs of shoes, one handbag and a shirt. The shoes are going to be KILLER sexy. It's not that I care so much about what he thinks of me as much as how much I want to flaunt to his face on what he's lost.
crew Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 Tell him to let himself in when he knocks, but be taking a 5hit when he walks in. That'll confuse him even more no? LOL! funny. I would go with something casual sexy like the others have suggested. If u have sexy shorts that u wear as pjs u could wear that and look like u've just gotten out of bed. I'm meeting my ex this week and im wearing a simple skirt cardi combo with knee high boots
Author Hannah86 Posted July 16, 2009 Author Posted July 16, 2009 I took the advice of both of you--to not be there, AND to dress hot! I had him meet me at a cafe up the street where I was having a drink with some friends--friends he knew, too, even though they are closer to me. I had on a tight dress and flip flops and my hair and makeup were done, which made sense since I was out eating. He asked me when to come by--walking his dog--and which house was mine, and I said "I'm actually around the corner at ***** you can come by, it's closer to your house too" and he came with his dog and sat for about 15-20 minutes and talked with us! We kept the conversation very light and upbeat. I found out we are vacationing near each other and my friends told him to meet us for dinner on Sunday night. Second Chances...if they are meant to happen, they will. I am not ready to get back together, but I am playing my cards correctly and slowly so that maybe someday we can.
Enema Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 But, but... YOU broke up, with HIM. If he was posting here everyone would tell him to leave the game playing b1tch alone, she's just trying to string you along in case she can't find someone better.
GorillaTheater Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 But, but... YOU broke up, with HIM. If he was posting here everyone would tell him to leave the game playing b1tch alone, she's just trying to string you along in case she can't find someone better. Ha! You're right. That's exactly the advice he'd be getting. From me too, more than likely.
BCCA Posted July 16, 2009 Posted July 16, 2009 I took the advice of both of you--to not be there, AND to dress hot! I had him meet me at a cafe up the street where I was having a drink with some friends--friends he knew, too, even though they are closer to me. I had on a tight dress and flip flops and my hair and makeup were done, which made sense since I was out eating. He asked me when to come by--walking his dog--and which house was mine, and I said "I'm actually around the corner at ***** you can come by, it's closer to your house too" and he came with his dog and sat for about 15-20 minutes and talked with us! We kept the conversation very light and upbeat. I found out we are vacationing near each other and my friends told him to meet us for dinner on Sunday night. Second Chances...if they are meant to happen, they will. I am not ready to get back together, but I am playing my cards correctly and slowly so that maybe someday we can. So, essentially, you are back-burnering this guy, but want the option open in case all else fails? Why play all these games, dont you care if this guy gets hurt? Like Dave Chappelle said, chivalry is dead...and women killed it.
Trialbyfire Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 Are you for real? Things don't add up. As someone who's primarily been the one doing the dumping in the past, your actions make zero sense to me.
alphamale Posted July 17, 2009 Posted July 17, 2009 suggestions? dress really slutty. tight halter top with a leather mini-skirt and 5" peep-toe pumps
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