Taucher Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 I have been doing a lot of thinking (or obsessing, whatever you want to call it) about me and my Ex and how we met and stuff. And it occurred to me that we started going out because of NC, although I wasn't using NC deliberately. We met when I got a new job, in 2002. I was nervous on my first day and there she was...breathtaking. She had started 2 months before me. It was, for both of us, our first 'proper' jobs. We both had partners who, funnily enough, dumped us in January 2004. We got closer, started going out after work. I thought (still think) that she is the most beautiful woman in the world. We got closer, and she told me one day she fancied me (did NOT see that coming). Anyway, over the next 6 months we had a lot of sex but she DUMPED ME 3 TIMES! One 'relationship' only lasted 2 days. But despite all this, we still hung out and had sex blah de blah. All the time this was going on, she was emailing me about the men she was dating (she later said she did this to get me jealous). So, January 2004. I VERY suddenly get sick of being strung along. She asked me to go out with her and her friends. We would have ended up in bed (and she would have spent the next day feeling guilty) but I had HAD enough. I refused. She didnt like that. She kept asking me out, but I said no. Stopped replying to her emails. 4 months later she asked me out with two of her friends (a couple) and as they were going somewhere enar where I lived, I said OK. That night, under the table she was stroking my thigh and then, when we left, she came back to mine and asked me why I wouldnt kiss her. I kissed her then. It felt different... ...so we went out for four years and were very much in love and lived together for two...all because of NC. T
001bh Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 Sounds like a case of her realizing what she was missing and you playing hard to get? Cool, sounds like you're having a good time.
Author Taucher Posted July 14, 2009 Author Posted July 14, 2009 Well, I WAS having a good time until she walked out on me 7 weeks ago. Not sure why I wrote this post really, but thanks for reading! T
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