drivesmecrazy3 Posted July 13, 2009 Posted July 13, 2009 Ive posted here alot, not to be anoying or anything but because this girl really was making me so worried and anxious every single day. We hooked up for awhile, expressed feelings for one another, and then one day she suddenly told me that i should talk to other girls because she didnt know what she wanted anymore. I did talk to girls, and it became obvious. After she asked me if i had hooked up with someone, I lied and told her yes. She asked me if i enjoyed it and when i wouldnt answer she told me that i should delete her number because she was so hurt and jealous. Then she went kinda crazy, and posted all over my facebook mocking that girl and mentioning things that we did. This really pissed me off, but for some of reason i still cared for her a lot. She told me that if i hadent been talking to anyone that she wouldnt want to either, so i told her that me and that girl were not serious at all. Suddenly, she changed her mind again and said she didnt know what she wanted. Weeks went by and she was admitting to not having real interest in anyone else. I had a party last thursday, and she called my phone. She heard my friends gf in the background and then started asking why a girl was there. then she started asking how many girls were in my house, meanwhile she was saying that we should both do our own things. Right after i brought up her wanting me to do my own thing, she got defensive and said "oh just so you know two guys were asking me to have a 3some with them yesterday, so know that." I said thats nice, you should have, and hungup. She texted me a few times that night, when i wasnt responding. Finally she texted me saying i miss you, lets hangout tommorow ill be with my friend so bring someone for her. the next day i said okay, and got one of my friends to agree to come. 9pm at night, she cancelled, and didnt respond all night. Later i found out that her friend wanted to hangout with her "**** buddy" so she went to hangout with her, him and his friend. Obviously ditching me to chill with another guy. I gave her major additude after that, and in fact, she didnt respond all of the next night either untill 3am. Finally, sunday night, she asked why i havent been talking to her so much and i said dont worry about it. Then she asked if i had been hanging out with anygirls and i said yeah just like you wanted. THEN, i asked her if she hookedup with anyone, and she said YES. I asked her if she enjoyed it and once again she said yes, which made my heart plummit. she made plans with me a long time ago to go to her friends party with her on tuesday and then sleep over with her. But after she said that, i told her that i didnt want to go with her anymore, and that she should bring the person she hookedup with instead. Now all day shes texting me saying now I know how she felt when i said i hookedup, and that she really wants to see me. However i keep telling her that it wont make a difference and that she'll enjoy herself anyway, because she obviously said she enjoyed hooking up, that i didnt want to see her. Im going to be so depressed by tomm if she doesnt really appologize or take anything back or anything because it means that im gonna be spending my birthday dwelling on it all day and night. Please tell me what i should say, ive already told her that me and her are headed nowhere because we are always gonna end up pissing each other off/making each other jealous, so theres no point in chilling or talking, but she doesnt respond to that. What should i say and do.
NopeNah Posted July 13, 2009 Posted July 13, 2009 You both sound very young. Move on,let it go! I see nothing but you guys having a "pissing match" with who does what. Silly game you two are playing. Stop talking to her.
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