SimpleSam Posted July 13, 2009 Posted July 13, 2009 So I have been seeing this really nice girl for about a month now. She seems to be really into me, but I know that she wants to wait before we sleep together. This does not bother me in the slightest; but there is something that is getting on my nerves. After I got done working out with her today I told her to call me once she was done with her shower/getting ready. So she calls me and says that there is something wrong with her car. No big deal. I wasn't mad at all that we couldn't hang out this evening. So, about an hour later she texts me "Do you hate me because I'm always busy?" which I responded as no, its not a big deal at all. Then I ask her why she thinks this. She texts "Cuz I can't read you. I HATE IT!" So as I'm trying to respond to this, she sends me another one saying, "I'm kinda scared of you? I don't know if that's really the word. You're just different." Now, I don't want to blow a figurative gasket or anything, but I'm kind of troubled by these responses. Do you think she is just nervous because she really likes me? Or is this going to affect her attitude towards are relationship? I can't help it if I'm an introvert; but I sure as hell don't want this girl to be scared of me either. I don't understand. Damn its exausting. Any advice will help. Thanks for reading.
385 Posted July 13, 2009 Posted July 13, 2009 So, about an hour later she texts me "Do you hate me because I'm always busy?" which I responded as no, its not a big deal at all. Then I ask her why she thinks this. She texts "Cuz I can't read you. I HATE IT!" So as I'm trying to respond to this, she sends me another one saying, "I'm kinda scared of you? I don't know if that's really the word. You're just different." I've had a girl I've been dating say that to me too. I think what she's trying to say is that she is not sure how you feel about her. Yes you're trying to be nice and considerate and stuff to her by saying it doesn't bother you, but in her mind, she still doesn't know if you like her or not. I think you should tell her you like her or something that tells her you want to be in the relationship with her. Basically she likes you but doesn't know/unsure about what you feel about her. And you should be explicit about it because for some reason if you are implicit about it, girls still don't know what you are thinking.
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