lsb Posted July 13, 2009 Posted July 13, 2009 Hi. I am having a really hard time letting go. I don't want to let go. He was a friend to me. And that is what I am having a hard time letting go. I do not have many friends. I have like two other friends who are girls. And no guy friends. I think maybe that is why I am holding on still? I dunno. But we started talking again a couple weeks ago and all he still would mention dating and workign things out. I am so scared. Because I don't really want to lose him but do I even have a choice? I hate this. I got like this before with the last guy I dated. I feel like all of this is my fault. I dumped him and then he immediately went on a dating site which only made me confirm my decision. But of course two months later and I am feeling like I should be over this? Like I should have forgave him and kept going? Or just be done with him? But its like I just want the place in between but that is not fair to him? that is not possiblE? I feel so sick. and it hurts because he is back on the site looking and messaging girls. and i feel like it is because i havent even hung out with him yet or took him back.
Author lsb Posted July 13, 2009 Author Posted July 13, 2009 i guess i shouldnt have broke something that i couldnt fix.
SRTtoZ Posted July 13, 2009 Posted July 13, 2009 You DUMPED him. What do you want him to do? Wait around for you until you change your mind? He has every right to do that...And secondly, if he really even likes/loves you...He probably doesnt want much part of most of those girls, but its helping him take his mind off of everything. If you want him back reach out and tell him how you feel...if you dont want him back, let it go. No more games.
Author lsb Posted July 13, 2009 Author Posted July 13, 2009 ou DUMPED him. What do you want him to do? Wait around for you until you change your mind? He has every right to do that...And secondly, if he really even likes/loves you...He probably doesnt want much part of most of those girls, but its helping him take his mind off of everything. If you want him back reach out and tell him how you feel...if you dont want him back, let it go. No more games. --- yea i guess that is what i wanted him to do. what if i dont know?
NopeNah Posted July 13, 2009 Posted July 13, 2009 If you "don't know"...you might want to make your mind up before it's too late, like it is with me and my ex. She "didn't know" what she wanted to do after 5yrs!?!? Now she "knows it's me she wants forever"! Guess what? TOO LATE, I"M GONE!
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