nyr81 Posted July 13, 2009 Posted July 13, 2009 So I met this girl at a week long conference. I was debating back and forth whether or not to ask her for her number, not sure if I really wanted to ask her out. I eventually did ask for her number at the end of the conference but now I'm really debating whether or not I want to call her. Am I a horrible person to not call her?
Confusedalways Posted July 13, 2009 Posted July 13, 2009 I wouldn't say you're horrible for not calling. But are you not calling because you're scared or because you lost interest? Don't let fear get in the way!
Author nyr81 Posted July 14, 2009 Author Posted July 14, 2009 No just because I'm not interested. I think I was just flattered that she seemed interested in me.
skjd1220 Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 I'd say if you really aren't interested, then the nicer thing to do is just not call then. It would be worse for you to call just because you have her number and give her false hope. She'll honestly probably be disappointed that you didn't call but less disappointed then if you call once and then disappear.
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