b3nx Posted July 13, 2009 Posted July 13, 2009 So I am falling in love with my gf. I paranoid about everything down to obsessing about my personal hygeine, worried about having sex on my bed if I have not changed the sheets in a while and they might smell? Dunno if they would :S is it because I worried I might get hurt?
SoulSearch_CO Posted July 13, 2009 Posted July 13, 2009 I'd say more likely it comes down to being afraid you'll lose her. Possibly putting her off with some bad habit. So, yes - in the end, you getting hurt. You're starting to let yourself get attached, so if it ended, it would hurt more than in the very beginning. However - don't obsess too much about losing someone. It's far too easy to make a self-fulfilling prophecy. Enjoy what you have and give 100% to making her feel loved. If she's worth her stuff, she'll return the favor.
stepka Posted July 13, 2009 Posted July 13, 2009 A friend said this once: "Everyone wants to be in love, but no one wants to get hurt." How true that is.
Jersey Shortie Posted July 13, 2009 Posted July 13, 2009 You don't want the person to think poorly of you if you're not perfect.
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