mac10688 Posted July 13, 2009 Posted July 13, 2009 I met this girl (a proud virgin Christian girl) while playing ping-pong with my roommate in college. Soon after she got my cell # and started texting me to hang out and play cards and stuff. Then I wouldn't hear much from her and she would only call if she wanted me to take her some place, like a party or wal-mart. I was sure I was now the dependable friend she was just using to go places and I always took her wherever she wanted. I never made a move on her because my roommate talked about her all the time and I wasn't even sure she was sexually interested in me, because she never gave off any sort of sexual vibe. Twice she invited me to a party but both times nothing came of it. Once I did not have any alcohol and she kind of went in the other room. I left because I was out of place and socially retarded without alcohol. The other time we hung out a lot but I had the feeling I was just her friend. (This paragraph is a bit out of place but I had to put it in somewhere) A year after we first met she called one night and was very intoxicated. She wanted to come down to my room and sleep because her roommate was more conservative than she was and she didn't want her roommate to see her drunk (or that's what she told me). We ended up making out (several times in front of my roommate who had the huge crush on her in the first place ) but that's as far as I took it because I didn't want hear **** about me taking advantage of her in the morning, plus she was still bragging about being a virgin. So we both slept in my bed with me at her feet. The next morning she leaves without saying a word. I text her and she was sorry for being a terrible person. A few days after that I text her to see if she wanted breakfast only to find out, after an hour of texting and me asking why she declined, she was seeing a guy that drove 70 miles to see her and that they were dating. Later that night I texted her furiously and she apologized and that we could still be friends. The next week I told her we were cool and we hung out once more before summer vacation to play ping-pong. After that night I asked her each day for a week straight to see if she wanted to do anything and she always excused herself with a 7 page paper. And that was it. During this summer out of the blue she texted me to ask me how I was doing at 2 am, when I was sleeping. She never explained why she really texted me though. I'm confused as hell, should I pursue her or get away because I don't think we can just be friends anymore. I'm not the greatest writer so if there is anything that doesn't make sense ask and I'll edit my post.
lizzy_09 Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 After reading your post, I didn't have a headache. Which means your doing alright. I think she likes you and their are possibilities of that like that could form to love. Go ahead. There is after all no harm in trying.
carhill Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 During this summer out of the blue she texted me to ask me how I was doing at 2 am, when I was sleeping. She never explained why she really texted me though. I'm confused as hell, should I pursue her or get away because I don't think we can just be friends anymore. She was lonely and you are 'Cheers', a familiar pattern of support and validation. The fact that a human being with feelings is attached is largely irrelevant to her. Ask her straight up out on a date. Clarity. Accept the answer.
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