mandamichelle209 Posted July 11, 2009 Posted July 11, 2009 So ive been dating my boyfriend for two years. but i moved to arizona for the summer n my boyfriend stayed at home in illinois. We have been through so much and were still together. he likes to say were meant to be and our love is so strong. welll a little bit before i moved he started talking to another girl and hanging out with her. he said they were nothing but friends.. but lately this girl has been falling more n more for him and i know because her friends n my friends tell me. hes always hanging out with her but never alone always has his friends with her. apparently now she thinks they are basically dating but i dont understand this when he calls me all the time n texts me n tells me how much he misses me n wants me to come home n how he loves me n blah blah blah.. he said he doesnt want her n loves me n wants to be with me n marry me. he also told me he only hangs out with her cuz shes the only one who has a car n will drive him and his friends everywhere.. (theyre lames n dont have cars...) but then he tells her me n him were never anything. his mom texts me all the time n she even tells me she misses me. he told me once i get back that hes not going to talk to her anymore and that shell be gone for good. i just dont understand what the hell i should do. should i believe him n take the chance or drop him or what.
Lucky_One Posted July 12, 2009 Posted July 12, 2009 He's already cheated on you several times, right?
Author mandamichelle209 Posted July 12, 2009 Author Posted July 12, 2009 uhm only once before that hes told me of.
Lucky_One Posted July 12, 2009 Posted July 12, 2009 So all the times he was telling other girls that they had fat pu$$ies (whatever THAT means) even though he claimed to have never had sex with them, he was just talking smack?
Author mandamichelle209 Posted July 12, 2009 Author Posted July 12, 2009 yeahh well eventually he told me cheated on me with that girl he said that to.. but yeah he says he just talks all stuff to girls now n nothing more.
Lucky_One Posted July 12, 2009 Posted July 12, 2009 Well, personally, I wouldn't trust him as far as I could throw him. But that's just me. He has admitted cheating on you with one girl. He has messaged another girl on FB asking when he could screw her again. Yet another girl has told you that she is his GF, and she posts "I love you Baby" on her FB about him. And now he is hanging out with another girl and telling her that you and him are nothing? And you seriously want to know what you should do? What does your common sense tell you?
MichelleS1983 Posted July 12, 2009 Posted July 12, 2009 .. but lately this girl has been falling more n more for him and i know because her friends n my friends tell me. And why would that be? Because your boyfriend is encouraging it, maybe? ...hes always hanging out with her but never alone always has his friends with her. You don't live there anymore nor do you spend 24 hours a day with your boyfriend. So you know this for a stone cold FACT exactly....how? Apparently now she thinks they are basically dating but i dont understand this when he calls me all the time n texts me n tells me how much he misses me n wants me to come home n how he loves me n blah blah blah.. I have to ask AGAIN - where would she get the idea that they're 'dating?' unless he's encouraging it and actively PARTICIPATING in it? He also told me he only hangs out with her cuz shes the only one who has a car n will drive him and his friends everywhere.. What a tool. Home boy can't afford his own car so he lets a girl drive him around? What a complete douche bag. Does this loser have a job? Or is he under-employed at the local Burger King? Loser. Hopefully with a little effort and initiative, he might get himself promoted to French Fry Boy. ....but then he tells her me n him were never anything. Not to be harsh, but are you all still in high school? I can see this type of immature stupidity being displayed by a bunch of stupid high school juniors who don't know any better, but not by supposed adults. This isn't rocket science!! If this little tool of a boyfriend of yours is TELLING another girl that you were "never an item," what do you THINK it means? Bottom line - you picked a lying, cheating, LAZY little loser and have wasted 2 years of your life you can't get back. For the love of ALL that is holy, AIM HIGHER.
Javelin Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 Well said, Michelle. I don't think there needs to be anything else added to this thread.
stace79 Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 Well said, Michelle. I don't think there needs to be anything else added to this thread. Actually one more thing IMO -- why are young ladies so ignorant nowadays??? Women allow men to cheat and treat us like dirt, because there is always another idiot female lining up to screw a married or otherwise spoken for guy, or another girl who will allow her man to treat her as the OP. Stick up for yourself! Stop letting men treat you like dirt. If you feel unhappy or you don't know that this guy only has eyes for you, then get out of the relationship. Even if he is not cheating on you, he is definitely NOT a good boyfriend. You don't need that.
Thornton Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 The word "and" has three letters, and sentences start with a capital letter. I simply can't read your post easily when it's written in such a way. What on earth are they teaching in schools nowadays?
carhill Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 Next time, pick a guy with a car. As least then you know he's going somewhere
sugarmomma Posted July 15, 2009 Posted July 15, 2009 You are totally being played by this loser. Where is your self esteem?
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