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Lizzie60 Established Member

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Oh boy, the player got played this time... he is your homework assignment Lizzie.

 

:laugh: yep... starting tomorrow.. I'm on his case.. ;)

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How to find something out about Mr. Sean Jamison:

 

intellius.com (paid site, but they will do a search that comes up with the person's family members for free - Sean Jamison, aged 54, lives in Topeka, and is linked with Susan, Jacqueline, Brian and Mary)

 

zaba.com (Gives tp# & addresses for Sean Jamison in Topeka (for ex), and then you search all the (blank) Jamison's in Topeka to see if there is another Jamison living at that address)

 

dirtsearch.org (takes a few minutes, but can give you a fairly comprehensive and usually accurate (not always) representation on their "dirt" - court files, arrest records, etc.)

 

The county's property record search database. Does Sean Jamison own property? Find the deed number and see whose name the deed is in.

 

Only intellius requires money, and it is pretty cheap - less than $20. (I use all of this at work, so we have a corporate account, so I don't know how much it is for a single search)

 

Start there, Lizzie.

 

Thanks.. but the problem is .. I did a research, similar to this.. but it gave me like 25 names.. (he has a very 'common' name'.. like Mike Jones.. you know.. there could be 50 people with that name)..

 

Plus I googled Intelius.. and this is a US company.. they don't show 'Canada' in there.

 

If I only have a name.. they can't do much.. :o

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I know he will... and I know it's going to be extremely hard for me to resist.. as I rarely had better sex... it is amazingly good.

 

Plus I should add that I was getting very much into this guy.. the only one that has my serious 'attention' since my last ex..

 

It sucks.. :o

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on accident, I have in the past. truth be told.. I just keep coming back to this thread to see OP's avatar pic! :cool:

 

Are you a male or female? :cool:

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Thanks.. but the problem is .. I did a research, similar to this.. but it gave me like 25 names.. (he has a very 'common' name'.. like Mike Jones.. you know.. there could be 50 people with that name)..

 

Plus I googled Intelius.. and this is a US company.. they don't show 'Canada' in there.

 

If I only have a name.. they can't do much.. :o

 

Forgot you are Montreal. I only look for people down here. Sorry.

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he's married... that's why he goes mia on evenings and weekends too... also if he was seen by a woman leaving with a change of clothes he throws up a red flag for her.

 

any man would be happy to bring a change of clothes after work, get a shower and take you out... but, he's taken.

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he's married... that's why he goes mia on evenings and weekends too... also if he was seen by a woman leaving with a change of clothes he throws up a red flag for her.

 

any man would be happy to bring a change of clothes after work, get a shower and take you out... but, he's taken.

 

Yep.. the more I think about it.. the more I'm sure he is taken..

the 'jerk'... :mad:

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this will be interesting to see what happens with him.

 

i bet 100.00 when lizzie cuts him off - he'll suddenly try to figure out how to be more "available" for her on her terms... sending up all kind of red flags at home.

 

he'll probably dream up a good reason to tell his wife why he needs to stay at the job site all week... meanwhile wooing lizzie so he can keep her on his line.

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Maybe he gets his kicks lying to the mistresses too?

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Maybe he gets his kicks lying to the mistresses too?

 

maybe.. who knows? :o

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this will be interesting to see what happens with him.

 

i bet 100.00 when lizzie cuts him off - he'll suddenly try to figure out how to be more "available" for her on her terms... sending up all kind of red flags at home.

 

he'll probably dream up a good reason to tell his wife why he needs to stay at the job site all week... meanwhile wooing lizzie so he can keep her on his line.

 

I know.. it will be interesting.. ;)

 

I have 'parade' in some of my nicest lingerie.. he went crazy..

 

He finds all kind of 'excuses' to be near my driveway when I leave in the morning so he can have a 'peek' at me.. and when I come back from work.. I know because I see him around... and I know he should be in another area.

 

Oh well.. too bad.. I won't have a depression over him.. it just sucks.. :o

Chrome Barracuda Established Member

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Something is odd with this guy.. We have amazing sex.. but he won't sleep over.. his cell phone is off after work... I have never seen him on weekends.. he told me his address but the no. doesn't exist.. (unless I heard the wrong number)...

 

Something doesn't add up.. I confronted him... he swore on his son's head that he is single...

 

I just don't get it..

 

:mad:

 

Could be a multitude of things about why he doesnt want to sleep over. maybe he was married and is going through rough times. maybe he doesnt want any serious girlfriend and he doesnt want to give you the wrong idea.

 

Dont you do a background check on any of the men you sleep with? lol.

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Exactly Touche.

 

Well said.

 

 

 

I knew this too.

 

You bet this thread confirms it. Simply the title alone speaks volumes!

 

The sad thing I see is that it has come full circle - a self fulfilling prophecy. And now she will be even more convinced that ALL men lie and ALL men cheat.

 

I've said all along "just because you don't have doesn't mean other people don't have it either".

That falls on deaf ears.

 

Now we see that she believes it DOES exist (she thought she herself had attained it - and you can't have something that doesn't exist) but she came up with the short end of the stick...again.

 

Lizzie60 -

 

Perhaps if the truth telling you claim to do got really real and really truthful --- that you DO want a committed relationship with honesty and respect --- then you would be closer to attaining it.

 

Now that you put this out there we all know it is there within you and as much as you want to cover it up - please realize that only hurts you in YOUR life and stops you from getting what you really do want.

 

Good insight.

 

Cmon Lizzie, maybe there's a prince charming out there waiting for you, why not take a look?

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Dont you do a background check on any of the men you sleep with? lol.

 

Oh c'mon CB. At $50.00 a pop she'd be in the poor house if she did that!

 

And I think the majority of the time any of this same stuff wouldn't matter.

 

It is different this time because what she wants with this guy is different.

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Well let me stop at post # 59 . You are having amazing sex with this guy and you don't know where he lives ?

 

I am thinking something even worse than being married . What if he is a serial killer or a criminal ?

 

Either way you know very LITTLE about this guy.

 

Google his name. Up comes People Search. * IF * thats his REAL name. Click on ALL the names of his family. You might find a wife in there...

 

This just smells very fishy.

 

He is wayyy too unavailable.

 

Good thing you are paying attention to your instincts.

Chrome Barracuda Established Member

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LOL we in a recession IG, times is rough!!!

 

Could our little lizzie be in love???:love::love::love::love::love:

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I know he will... and I know it's going to be extremely hard for me to resist.. as I rarely had better sex... it is amazingly good.

 

Oh oh... Well, at least you can do him.

 

Hopefully he won't split like a banana.

 

And how funny the name is like Joe Doe.

 

At least you know where he works. Maybe you can call him there and say you are the wife. ;)

 

(That is if his name actually is Joe Doe, maybe they don't know him :laugh:)

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you could still get the great sex from him - but just make sure you start charging him. you are capable of keeping the emotions out of it Lizzie, you could do it this way... then it's a win - win situation.

 

you call him on his crap, you present the business opportunity, you still get the good sex.

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Jeez Liz, do you think ALL men are fools? You have no intention of beginning a relationship with this man. You didn't even mention this until posters began to call you out on your hypocrasy. So now YOU are the injured party.:laugh: I'm probably the only person on LS who has used as many people as you have, and I don't believe you for one second. In order to have a relationship, you must be able and willing to be vulnerable. To expose your inner-most feelings. To commit your love to another person. Sorry, but I don't think that you have it in you. This is MHO only. Your lifestyle and lack of morality are your own business and it seems to be how you want to live, so I won't judge you, I'm just giving you my take. Having said that you are without doubt one of the most interesting posters on LS and I am a really big fan.:D:D

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Could be a multitude of things about why he doesnt want to sleep over. maybe he was married and is going through rough times. maybe he doesnt want any serious girlfriend and he doesnt want to give you the wrong idea.

 

Dont you do a background check on any of the men you sleep with? lol.

 

No I don't.. do you? I don't know anyone who does that.. (you were kidding right?_

 

He was married.. said he divorced 5 years ago..

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LOL we in a recession IG, times is rough!!!

 

Could our little lizzie be in love???:love::love::love::love::love:

 

 

Hahaha... no.. my little voice stopped me just in time.. ;)

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you could still get the great sex from him - but just make sure you start charging him. you are capable of keeping the emotions out of it Lizzie, you could do it this way... then it's a win - win situation.

 

you call him on his crap, you present the business opportunity, you still get the good sex.

 

 

You are bad... this would be like 'blackmail' or something.. ooonnnnn bad bad Sunny.. :laugh:

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Jeez Liz, do you think ALL men are fools? You have no intention of beginning a relationship with this man. You didn't even mention this until posters began to call you out on your hypocrasy. So now YOU are the injured party.:laugh: I'm probably the only person on LS who has used as many people as you have, and I don't believe you for one second. In order to have a relationship, you must be able and willing to be vulnerable. To expose your inner-most feelings. To commit your love to another person. Sorry, but I don't think that you have it in you. This is MHO only. Your lifestyle and lack of morality are your own business and it seems to be how you want to live, so I won't judge you, I'm just giving you my take. Having said that you are without doubt one of the most interesting posters on LS and I am a really big fan.:D:D

 

Thanks.. Bold.. I honestly like you too... you are sincere and I do not feel any 'meaness' in your post.. but to answer you...

 

you are wrong this time.. I was getting ready (in my mind) to start something serious with this guy (for the first time since my last separation).. I was not totally 'in love' with him yet.. as I 'guard' myself... and as you say... I've been with sooo many men.. it takes longer I guess.. ;)

 

I have to disagree with the bold part.. to be committed doesn't necessarily mean that we have to be vulnerable... we all have our 'dark secrets' and it's not ALWAYS a good thing to tell them.. (that I'm certain, according to my book anyway).. When you meet a woman, do you tell them that you had X number of partners.. this is private.. extremely private..

 

My lack of morality!!!!... so every woman who sleep with a 'taken man' has no moral... I disagree.. I know I am a good person.. mother..friend.. etc.. that.. I am absolutely certain.. I don't see it the same way you do.. but hey.. we're all entitled to our opinions.. it's a free world..

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Thanks.. Bold.. I honestly like you too... you are sincere and I do not feel any 'meaness' in your post.. but to answer you...

 

you are wrong this time.. I was getting ready (in my mind) to start something serious with this guy (for the first time since my last separation).. I was not totally 'in love' with him yet.. as I 'guard' myself... and as you say... I've been with sooo many men.. it takes longer I guess.. ;)

 

I have to disagree with the bold part.. to be committed doesn't necessarily mean that we have to be vulnerable... we all have our 'dark secrets' and it's not ALWAYS a good thing to tell them.. (that I'm certain, according to my book anyway).. When you meet a woman, do you tell them that you had X number of partners.. this is private.. extremely private..

 

My lack of morality!!!!... so every woman who sleep with a 'taken man' has no moral... I disagree.. I know I am a good person.. mother..friend.. etc.. that.. I am absolutely certain.. I don't see it the same way you do.. but hey.. we're all entitled to our opinions.. it's a free world..

 

I certainly am not one to pass harsh judgement on people's choices they make in life, to each his own. However, I am curious, in the past when you have been involved with MM, do you never feel the slightest tinge of guilt for partaking on a web of deception?

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Some other great indicators that he is not available :

 

Have you spent the night at HIS house? He can use his convenience as an excuse not to sleep over yours...but have you slept over or even been to his place?

 

Do you actually DATE? Or does he just come over to see you for sex?

Do you ever go to dinner? Away for the weekend?

 

Even MM take OW on dates.

 

He has not told you exactly where he lives, his home phone #, and is not available for you to reach him during evenings (does this include weekends?)

 

He may not be married. He may not be attached. He may be interested in ONLY coming over for sex regardless of his circumstances. He may not see you as anything more than that.

 

He may not have lied, but certainly has a reason to not give you much info.

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