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Lizzie60 Established Member

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Lizzie, Have you read "He's just not that into you"?

 

 

No..but trust me.. this one IS into me.. big time.. but I know he's hiding something.. He's often 'checks' on me..

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my gut says he has a wife or live in girlfriend. i'm sure he tells her that he's working when he comes to see you. especially since his phone is always off. he's obligated to head home at the end of your gathering, that's why he can't stay. also the address - he didn't want you to know because she's there. you could pay a few bucks to do a background check on him - for about 50.00 you can find out everything you've been wondering about - including if he's married and/or has a criminal record, has kids etc.

 

maybe you should suggest going out in public often. if he's reluctant to meet you out and about - he probably doesn't want to get caught.

 

the info you find may not even be accurate if he's lied about numerous things. who knows in cases like these... he may have given you a fake name as well. it would be worth it just to see if he's told you truthful things about himself in general. if he's lied - then there would be no reason at all to even speak to him any longer.

 

My gut also tells me he has someone.. but each time I confront him.. he gets mad and swear (on his son's head) that he has no one.. :rolleyes:

 

And where would I go to get all this info for only $50???

 

The 'going out in public' thing.. I never asked him but I know he won't because he lives about 45 min. from my place.. but he works near my place.. so he will say that he can't go out with his work clothes.. (I never asked but I know that's what he would say.. )

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The 'going out in public' thing.. I never asked him but I know he won't because he lives about 45 min. from my place.. but he works near my place.. so he will say that he can't go out with his work clothes.. (I never asked but I know that's what he would say.. )

 

 

Huh? Can't go out in his work clothes? Since when can't people go out straight from work???

 

Unless he is a cop or wears a fat sumo wrestler outfit to work every day, then I don't see why going out in work clothes would be a problem?

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Ok, I'm sorry but I must ask. How is he into you (other than literally) BIG time as you say? The guy won't even give you his address or stay overnight. What about him tells you that he's so into you? I bet he compliments you a lot, right? Wow. He won't even take you out for dinner but he's into you BIG time? How? Just really curious.

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Huh? Can't go out in his work clothes? Since when can't people go out straight from work???

 

Unless he is a cop or wears a fat sumo wrestler outfit to work every day, then I don't see why going out in work clothes would be a problem?

 

:laugh:

 

And besides, a guy who was really into you BIG time, would at least bring a change of clothes and take you out like a proper gentleman.

 

Gosh, I'd start charging this guy because he's treating you like a prostitute anyway. Might as well get your "gifts" no?

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Huh? Can't go out in his work clothes? Since when can't people go out straight from work???

 

Unless he is a cop or wears a fat sumo wrestler outfit to work every day, then I don't see why going out in work clothes would be a problem?

 

Naaahhhh... not his work clothes.. he is site manager on the construction site.. so he wears big steel toe boots.. (always dirty).. so his clothes are always dirty (dust, dirt, perspiration, etc.. you know).

 

I can understand.. I wouldn't go out with work clothes.. :o

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Naaahhhh... not his work clothes.. he is site manager on the construction site.. so he wears big steel toe boots.. (always dirty).. so his clothes are always dirty (dust, dirt, perspiration, etc.. you know).

 

I can understand.. I wouldn't go out with work clothes.. :o

 

Ahhh got ya! :cool:

 

I think he is with someone Lizzie. A guy who wants to date you will bring a change of clothes. I think he is totally into you sexually I don't doubt that for a second but he is probably what they would call a FWB kind of guy here, at least from his side. You perhaps would want to take the relationship to the next step but for him it is super casual.

 

Do the thing I suggested earlier he will freak out, there is your answer. :D

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Ahhh got ya! :cool:

 

I think he is with someone Lizzie. A guy who wants to date you will bring a change of clothes. I think he is totally into you sexually I don't doubt that for a second but he is probably what they would call a FWB kind of guy here, at least from his side. You perhaps would want to take the relationship to the next step but for him it is super casual.

 

Do the thing I suggested earlier he will freak out, there is your answer. :D

 

He's already shaved.. the thing is .. with the hickey.. I am single and I would HATE it if a guy would give me a hickey... first.. even if I try, close to his parts.. I would have to suck real hard to 'mark' him.. I doubt I can do it.. even if I try.

 

There will be no more sex.. so... :o

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He's already shaved.. the thing is .. with the hickey.. I am single and I would HATE it if a guy would give me a hickey... first.. even if I try, close to his parts.. I would have to suck real hard to 'mark' him.. I doubt I can do it.. even if I try.

 

There will be no more sex.. so... :o

 

Do people over the age of 13 give hickeys?

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Do people over the age of 13 give hickeys?

 

Not sure.. I haven't seen one for years.. on anyone..

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Do people over the age of 13 give hickeys?
on accident, I have in the past. truth be told.. I just keep coming back to this thread to see OP's avatar pic! :cool:
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There will be no more sex.. so... :o

 

That's your best bet, follow your woman's intuition. If it seems fishy it is more than likely cod, or halibut or salmon or.....you get the picture. :D

 

I suggested the sex things because the relationship was already on that tip though you have every right to ask him for more personal details and for him to comply in giving you things like his last name and a correct home address. What's up with that??? :rolleyes: did you confront him about that?

 

Tell him to stop torturing his Siamese multi-headed kid and to give you a home address instead. I hate lies so much I'd go town with him!:mad:

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Not sure.. I haven't seen one for years.. on anyone..

 

Lizzie,

 

For how long have you seen this guy?

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Not sure.. I haven't seen one for years.. on anyone..

 

 

Love bites, scratches, markings whatever. Some people mark very easily, you don't have to suck down like a vampire. The point was to mark him.

On my partner that is the first thing I would notice scratch marks on his back, love bites etc. you don't get those from bumping into things you get those from having sex with someone.

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Some people mark very easily, you don't have to suck down like a vampire. The point was to mark him.

 

(One time I did that on my MM, and he went and cut himself with a razor there to fool the wife)

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That's your best bet, follow your woman's intuition. If it seems fishy it is more than likely cod, or halibut or salmon or.....you get the picture. :D

 

I suggested the sex things because the relationship was already on that tip though you have every right to ask him for more personal details and for him to comply in giving you things like his last name and a correct home address. What's up with that??? :rolleyes:did you confront him about that?

 

Tell him to stop torturing his Siamese multi-headed kid and to give you a home address instead. I hate lies so much I'd go town with him!:mad:

 

Not yet.. I just found out when I drove to my daughter's place Friday morning... I know he will either show up or call tomorrow.. he left me a message Friday, just after I left.. but I haven't spoken to him since..

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Lizzie,

 

For how long have you seen this guy?

 

Since beginning of June.. so it's quite 'recent'

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Love bites, scratches, markings whatever. Some people mark very easily, you don't have to suck down like a vampire. The point was to mark him.

On my partner that is the first thing I would notice scratch marks on his back, love bites etc. you don't get those from bumping into things you get those from having sex with someone.

 

Yabut.. a good liar will find any excuse.. he had a big scratch on his thighs last week.. he said it was the drill.. so a 'construction' guy has all the tools in the world.. you know..

 

I think he lies like he breathes.. :o

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(One time I did that on my MM, and he went and cut himself with a razor there to fool the wife)

 

Exactly.. if a MM needs to hide something like this.. he will do anything.. or if he can get away with a bruise of some kind.. it's very easy.. :o

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Since beginning of June.. so it's quite 'recent'

 

Yeah,

 

Too soon to tell all details.

 

But if he is so smooth, such a good liar, and good in bed. Those guys rarely don't have gfs!

 

Good luck, my take is that it'd be tough to even dump him. He'll try and seduce you.

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Yabut.. a good liar will find any excuse.. he had a big scratch on his thighs last week.. he said it was the drill.. so a 'construction' guy has all the tools in the world.. you know..

 

I think he lies like he breathes.. :o

 

 

Yeah but the point is to watch his reaction, what he does from then on what he says to his potential partner(if there is one) is not your problem, you want to see if he is lying to you. Sure he might play it cool but he might not if he does not want anything to let on he was out having sex with someone else.

How do you explain nail markings on his back? what construction tool leaves tiger claws on your back? A pitch fork maybe...he stepped on a pitch fork :laugh::laugh::laugh:

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Yabut.. a good liar will find any excuse.. he had a big scratch on his thighs last week.. he said it was the drill.. so a 'construction' guy has all the tools in the world.. you know..

 

I think he lies like he breathes.. :o

 

Oh boy, the player got played this time... he is your homework assignment Lizzie.

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(One time I did that on my MM, and he went and cut himself with a razor there to fool the wife)

 

 

Wow!! But see he knows his wife might ask. That's my point.

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How to find something out about Mr. Sean Jamison:

 

intellius.com (paid site, but they will do a search that comes up with the person's family members for free - Sean Jamison, aged 54, lives in Topeka, and is linked with Susan, Jacqueline, Brian and Mary)

 

zaba.com (Gives tp# & addresses for Sean Jamison in Topeka (for ex), and then you search all the (blank) Jamison's in Topeka to see if there is another Jamison living at that address)

 

dirtsearch.org (takes a few minutes, but can give you a fairly comprehensive and usually accurate (not always) representation on their "dirt" - court files, arrest records, etc.)

 

The county's property record search database. Does Sean Jamison own property? Find the deed number and see whose name the deed is in.

 

Only intellius requires money, and it is pretty cheap - less than $20. (I use all of this at work, so we have a corporate account, so I don't know how much it is for a single search)

 

Start there, Lizzie.

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Yeah,

 

Too soon to tell all details.

 

But if he is so smooth, such a good liar, and good in bed. Those guys rarely don't have gfs!

 

Good luck, my take is that it'd be tough to even dump him. He'll try and seduce you.

 

I know he will... and I know it's going to be extremely hard for me to resist.. as I rarely had better sex... it is amazingly good.

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