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gopher Established Member

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Anything that needs servicing in your condo Lizzie?

 

 

laugh.gif I cannot hide anything on here.. can I? Yes there are a few things that I want ... like many 'extras'... wink.gif

Touche Established Member

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? I'm confused. I thought Lizzie was an interior decorator?

 

:lmao::lmao: EFF, I almost spit my craberry juice out on that one! ahaha.

 

Anyway, back on topic. So? Did you crack the case on this guy yet? I think he's going to keep stringing you along with his excuses.

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? I'm confused. I thought Lizzie was an interior decorator?

 

 

OK.. Let me explain this.. I do have my diploma in Interior Design.. but never made a career out of it.. I help friends and family and I just looove 'home design'...

 

I have a day job.. which is a very good job for the gov't.. (federal)...

 

And my 'evening' job is massages.. (been doing this for about 6 years now and I love it)..

 

Now.. you got my pedigree.. ;)

Ariadne Established Member

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We already spoke 3 times this morning.. (he woke me up) he wants to come over this afternoon to finish the job he started a month ago.. he's so freaken slow.. anyway.. there will be no more sex.. but just out of curiosity I need to know what's going on..

 

Hey,

 

Did he go? What happened?

 

And what has he been doing to the condo?

Jilly Bean Established Member

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OK.. Let me explain this.. I do have my diploma in Interior Design.. but never made a career out of it.. I help friends and family and I just looove 'home design'...

 

I have a day job.. which is a very good job for the gov't.. (federal)...

 

And my 'evening' job is massages.. (been doing this for about 6 years now and I love it)..

 

Now.. you got my pedigree.. ;)

 

Gotcha! So I wasn't imagining the interior design thing. :)

 

I didn't know about the massage thing. I get one every week. :)

Mary3 Established Member

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Some other great indicators that he is not available :

 

Have you spent the night at HIS house? He can use his convenience as an excuse not to sleep over yours...but have you slept over or even been to his place?

 

Do you actually DATE? Or does he just come over to see you for sex?

Do you ever go to dinner? Away for the weekend?

 

Even MM take OW on dates.

 

He has not told you exactly where he lives, his home phone #, and is not available for you to reach him during evenings (does this include weekends?)

 

He may not be married. He may not be attached. He may be interested in ONLY coming over for sex regardless of his circumstances. He may not see you as anything more than that.

He may not have lied, but certainly has a reason to not give you much info.

 

Hopefully he does not just come over for sex. If thats all this is . then thats all this IS ...

 

If you are okay with a non committal absentee who is using you for sex then this is the R for you..

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And my 'evening' job is massages.. (been doing this for about 6 years now and I love it)..

 

Hey,

 

And what are you going to do if you start dating this guy (with all his BS) but he is not very committed, say, not telling you to live together, future plans, go on vacations etc...

 

What are you going to do with the massage?

 

That's kind of a conflict because in order to let all your business go, you'd have to have some serious committment from this guy, and not sure what he is going to do by the way he's behaving.

 

You'd have to deal with both things, and that's going to be emotionally draining.

 

In fact, I'd be afrad that he'll leave once he finishes his job in your house to be honest (he may smell you want a relationship). Hopefully he won't, because I know you like him a lot.

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Something is odd with this guy.. We have amazing sex.. but he won't sleep over.. his cell phone is off after work... I have never seen him on weekends.. he told me his address but the no. doesn't exist.. (unless I heard the wrong number)...

 

Something doesn't add up.. I confronted him... he swore on his son's head that he is single...

 

I just don't get it..

 

:mad:

 

 

Uh Lizzie....ALL of your men are liars. They cheat on their gf's/wives to be with you, hence...liars:rolleyes:

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Uh Lizzie....ALL of your men are liars. They cheat on their gf's/wives to be with you, hence...liars:rolleyes:

 

I agree and disagree.

 

I think as you know...what Lizzie is saying is that there is no need to lie to her since she accepts the fact that many/most/all men or MM who come "see" her do so while lying to someone else.

 

There should be no need to lie TO Lizzie...just lie WITH Lizzie. :D

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I didn't know about the massage thing. I get one every week. :)

 

:lmao: I don't think you get the kind she provides. ;)

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Lizzie60 Established Member

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Hey,

 

Did he go? What happened?

 

And what has he been doing to the condo?

 

He came after work to finish his work here.. then we talked.. but I still didn't get much out of him ... we had no sex..

 

He still swore he has noone.. he said he would take me to his place if that's what it takes.

 

I was exhausted.. and didn't really feel like talking about this..

 

For me.. it's over.. he just doesn't know it yet..

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He came after work to finish his work here.. then we talked.. but I still didn't get much out of him ... we had no sex..

 

He still swore he has noone.. he said he would take me to his place if that's what it takes.

 

I was exhausted.. and didn't really feel like talking about this..

 

For me.. it's over.. he just doesn't know it yet..

 

Hold him to that. There is a chance you could be wrong about this, a small one but still a chance anyway. Make him take you there.

 

I am genuinely sorry if this is upsetting you. This is pretty huge, that you were actually considering a relationship with him...

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Alright so what's the answer? Does he have a wife or not? Suspense is killing me here. I might have to send in an anonymous call to 'Cheaters' and have them do some hidden camera work just so I can stop reading this thread.

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Hold him to that. There is a chance you could be wrong about this, a small one but still a chance anyway. Make him take you there.

 

I am genuinely sorry if this is upsetting you. This is pretty huge, that you were actually considering a relationship with him...

 

Thanks CE.. I was just sitting there.. listening to him.. and thinking.. he is an extremely good liar or he's unbelievably dumb..

 

One way or the other.. there is no chance this will go anywhere.. I just lost too much respect for this guy.. :o

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did he give you ANY info that you could use to check on him?

 

also - if you're doing a search if you knew how old he is or where he was born or a birthdate will be extremely helpful while trying to pick him out of a group when common names are listed.

 

has he ever told you when his birthday is or where he was born? did he say how long he was married/divorced? i'm assuming he was once married since he has a son...

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Lizzie60 Established Member

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did he give you ANY info that you could use to check on him?

 

also - if you're doing a search if you knew how old he is or where he was born or a birthdate will be extremely helpful while trying to pick him out of a group when common names are listed.

 

has he ever told you when his birthday is or where he was born? did he say how long he was married/divorced? i'm assuming he was once married since he has a son...

 

Yes I know his age.. he just turned 44.. I don't think I will check his background.. right now I don't want to see him anymore.. :o

 

It doesn't really matter anymore if he's lying or not.. He was married for 16 years.. divorced 5 years now.. he has one son.. (20)

 

I told him there were too many red flags and that I'm not interested.. He took his stuff and left.

 

I think he was pissed.. but I don't give a 'hoot' :mad:

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Yes I know his age.. he just turned 44.. I don't think I will check his background.. right now I don't want to see him anymore.. :o

 

It doesn't really matter anymore if he's lying or not.. He was married for 16 years.. divorced 5 years now.. he has one son.. (20)

 

I told him there were too many red flags and that I'm not interested.. He took his stuff and left.

 

I think he was pissed.. but I don't give a 'hoot' :mad:

 

ah, good girl!!!!!! this is progress for you Lizzie!

 

now the hunt will begin...just be on the lookout - he may become a true stalker! either that or he will find creative ways to try to be around you or to come visit - in hopes of the sex again.

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ah, good girl!!!!!! this is progress for you Lizzie!

 

now the hunt will begin...just be on the lookout - he may become a true stalker! either that or he will find creative ways to try to be around you or to come visit - in hopes of the sex again.

 

Probably.. but I will be 'verrry busy'.. no time for him.. :o

Touche Established Member

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:lmao: I don't think you get the kind she provides. ;)

 

She clearly doesn't! I mean she though Lizzie was an "interior decorator" when those of us who have read her past posts know she's never actually done that for a living.:rolleyes:

 

ah, good girl!!!!!! this is progress for you Lizzie!

 

 

Progress?:confused: How is this progress?

 

Whatever...I'll say this, at least you don't let men take advantage of you. At least THAT I can admire. See? I'm giving you a compliment. :eek: That's more than you'd ever say to me, your enemy, right?;)

Mary3 Established Member

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think about this lizzie...

 

he is a workaholics - yet he makes time for hours and hours of sex with you... he doesn't have the time or make the effort to "take you out" WHY? because he doesn't need to.

 

he hasn't been required to "date" you - only required to have sex because it's good.

 

logically from his perspective, if he can be AWAY from his wife without her noticing for a few hours - why would he waste time taking you somewhere when he only wants the sex... he just doesn't want to tell you the truth of that... he only wants the sex and not to date you.

i'd just charge him. he's not dating material no matter how you want to dress up his excuses.

 

 

I will stop at post # 229 and tell you this R is total Booty Call....Nothing more , nothing less...

Ariadne Established Member

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He came after work to finish his work here.. then we talked.. but I still didn't get much out of him ... we had no sex..

 

He still swore he has noone.. he said he would take me to his place if that's what it takes.

 

I was exhausted.. and didn't really feel like talking about this..

 

For me.. it's over.. he just doesn't know it yet..

 

Oh no!

 

That's terrible. First guy you like and you are going to let him go just like that?

 

You don't want to go to his place and see what's going on?

 

Well, sorry about that..

 

Hope you are not feeling too bad. And he might still call.

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Lizzie60 Established Member

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Oh no!

 

That's terrible. First guy you like and you are going to let him go just like that?

 

You don't want to go to his place and see what's going on?

 

Well, sorry about that..

 

Hope you are not feeling too bad. And he might still call.

 

Thanks Ariadne.. I'm OK.. I have no patience with people like that anymore.. If he wants to play games.. he can play by himself..

 

It's much easier than I thought.. I haven't think about him much since he left...

 

I know he'll call again.. ;)

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And the games continue :D

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Lizzie60 Established Member

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And the games continue :D

 

Huh?? what games?

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if I fall in love with someone.. I WILL be faithful.. I know that.. I've always been faithful in my relationships.

 

According to you that is impossible...so how is it that you can accomplish the impossible? :laugh:

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