WhyMe1980 Posted July 11, 2009 Posted July 11, 2009 Ok, seeing a guy who has joint custody of a young teenage boy. (13). My position is I won't stay over under any circumstances when he is there. The SO doesn't think it is a big deal. Apparently other women he dated in the past stayed (some were long distance so that changed things a little bit anyway). Anyhow, if we do things while is son is around, which I encourage, the issue for me is Public Displays of Affection. What are your thoughts on PDA? I don't like it when we are watching a movie together and he has his head on my lap. It just doesn't seem right. Am I just the biggest prude ever or is this really just normal?
Lucky_One Posted July 11, 2009 Posted July 11, 2009 How long have you dated? I don't blame you on the spending the night since you are local, unless you are in a serious, committed, long-term R. I don't mind some PDAs, assuming they are affectionate instead of sexual. Having his head in your lap isn't too sexual, to me, unless he is trying to nibble your thigh. I think 13 year old boys are VERY curious about sex, and I wouldn't be spending the night anytime soon, as i would be afraid that he would be trying to listen through the vents or through the wall!
Author WhyMe1980 Posted July 11, 2009 Author Posted July 11, 2009 Thanks lucky one! You are too funny. I am so with you on the walls and curious thing. NO WAY! I think the non-sexual PDA is an excellent way of looking at things. I never thought about it like that. We are newly dating. Less than 2 months so far. So more important to be respectful. It might not work out long term and he is learning how to conduct himself by example. He worships his dad. He did tell his dad he liked having me over for dinner because I was fun. How long have you dated? I don't blame you on the spending the night since you are local, unless you are in a serious, committed, long-term R. I don't mind some PDAs, assuming they are affectionate instead of sexual. Having his head in your lap isn't too sexual, to me, unless he is trying to nibble your thigh. I think 13 year old boys are VERY curious about sex, and I wouldn't be spending the night anytime soon, as i would be afraid that he would be trying to listen through the vents or through the wall!
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