ohsolonely Posted July 11, 2009 Posted July 11, 2009 I have recently broken up with my fiancee, we were together for a year... and during that time he would tell me what to wear, he would have a go at me because he thought i was looking at other men, he would break me down because im an ex dancer, he made up this stupid rule... That if he misses out i miss out... he would never see his friends with out me, so every time i saw my friends i felt bad, so i stopped seeing them while i was with him... He would get jealous and jump to comclusions if we were out and i was standing next to guy (Even though i wasnt talkin to any of them!!), he would have to know everywhere ive been and would get angry if i was late coming home... Everything was double standards to him.. he gave me an engagement ring that was a gift his ex gave him (and i didint know about it for 6 months!!) Was i in an abusive relationship? Why are men like this? Why do i hurt so much when he was controlling and an *******? Im really confuzed... could someone please help me out??!
moo Posted July 11, 2009 Posted July 11, 2009 First, you are experiencing a loss. Second, I am sure you had some good times. You can have a horrible bf and still be sad and in pain when it is over. In your case, as with mine, count your blessings. You don't need someone like that. Stay away from him.
LostInLimbo Posted July 11, 2009 Posted July 11, 2009 I have recently broken up with my fiancee, we were together for a year... and during that time he would tell me what to wear, he would have a go at me because he thought i was looking at other men, he would break me down because im an ex dancer, he made up this stupid rule... That if he misses out i miss out... he would never see his friends with out me, so every time i saw my friends i felt bad, so i stopped seeing them while i was with him... He would get jealous and jump to comclusions if we were out and i was standing next to guy (Even though i wasnt talkin to any of them!!), he would have to know everywhere ive been and would get angry if i was late coming home... Everything was double standards to him.. he gave me an engagement ring that was a gift his ex gave him (and i didint know about it for 6 months!!) Was i in an abusive relationship? Why are men like this? Why do i hurt so much when he was controlling and an *******? Im really confuzed... could someone please help me out??! Get out is right!, and listen to Suspicious Minds by The Fine Young Cannibals, really loud LIL
boogieboy Posted July 11, 2009 Posted July 11, 2009 You did the right thing by breaking it off, that is NOT the way its supposed to be. That guys was clearly a nutjob and you realized it. Its just too bad that it went as far as it did and you didnt run sooner.
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