Should i go to my ex's freinds 21st tonite!!! only have two hours to decide?

[twistsangels]

so my ex and i broke up a couple of months ago but we have still been "Seeing eachother" And about a month ago i got an invite to his mate's 21st (which is tonite). anyway last weekend he said he didnt want this 'relationship' to continue and just wants to be freinds, which i was totally cool with, but he said still come to the party sat no worries.

So ive been looking forward to it and i took the weeked off work like ages ago to go tonite. Anyway he calls me up thursday and says he really doesnt want me there! im like na u cant say that man its two days b4 i have organised time off and its not ur party. but he is like they are 'my freinds', i dont want u there, and im like whatever u dont get to make that call. so i ring the guy haveing the party today and hes like yeah come dont worry about it. But im so not sure now! i really want to go im so excited but is it the rite thing to do??? everyone keeps telling me stuff him and go and look hot etc...

[Exit]

If you are completely over your ex, then go. He can't tell you what to do, especially when the host of the part has told you you're still invited. The only reason I would say not to go is if you AREN'T completely healed, fighting with your ex all night won't feel good. It may be worth avoiding the drama all together, but if you're looking forward to it, then go.

[Island Girl]

If you want to go then go.

 

Don't worry about what your ex thinks or says about it.

 

He is your ex. That means you don't have to consider him or his feelings anymore.

 

Just go, have a great time, and ignore your ex if he tries to talk to you.

[Adunaphel]

so my ex and i broke up a couple of months ago but we have still been "Seeing eachother" And about a month ago i got an invite to his mate's 21st (which is tonite). anyway last weekend he said he didnt want this 'relationship' to continue and just wants to be freinds, which i was totally cool with, but he said still come to the party sat no worries.

So ive been looking forward to it and i took the weeked off work like ages ago to go tonite. Anyway he calls me up thursday and says he really doesnt want me there! im like na u cant say that man its two days b4 i have organised time off and its not ur party. but he is like they are 'my freinds', i dont want u there, and im like whatever u dont get to make that call. so i ring the guy haveing the party today and hes like yeah come dont worry about it. But im so not sure now! i really want to go im so excited but is it the rite thing to do??? everyone keeps telling me stuff him and go and look hot etc...

 

If you are 100% positive that no matter what your bf does at the party you will enjoy it, absolutely go.

It is great that the person who is having the party said you are welcome, and asking him was the right thing to do.

Had your BF asked you not to go much sooner, it might have been different. But it was not fair to expect it after telling you it was okay, and after you took the weekend off work.

If he has problems with it, he can just leave.