Savannahgg Posted July 10, 2009 Posted July 10, 2009 Here I am at a point of my life I thought I'd never be.... I am so in love with my ex boyfriend who is currently in jail for a lonnnng time probably a couple of years, But i currently have a boyfriend the problem is i don't feel the love i feel for my ex, He is good to me but something doesn't feel right and i feel like i am only with him as a comfort thing because i hate being alone. I know i cant keep my life on hold for my ex in jail but no matter how hard i try i cant let go of him, Me and my ex broke up because of a misunderstanding well he had to go out of state to drop off a car for his family when he was supposed to be with but i was stupid at the time and jumped to conclusions he was leaving me forever because my friends were feeding my head with ideas that he had left me and didnt love me, so i broke up with him and went with a "rebound" guy to forget about him But later on my Ex called me and said he was comming back When i thought he left forever and told me that he wanted to get back together, so we got back together and i told him what happened between me and this other guy and that i was sorry but he got so angry that i was with another guy he stopped all contact with me and i was heartbroken i guess i was stupid at the time and deserved it but yeah time went by and i didn't hear anything from him i kept trying to find where he was but he had disappeared and a friend of mine said he was back to his old ways doing crime and drugs.. I called his parents but they hadn't seen him for awhile either I felt apart of the reason why he was doing stupid things but yeah we just ended so badly loss of communication and than one day i found out he got locked up so i called his parents to see if it was true, so i asked for what jail hes in and i started writing him saying i'm sorry and he has been writing me saying he is sorry for leaving me too. Its very complicated but i love him so much and i want to be with him but it seems so impossible at this point of time.. I don't know whether to Let go and lose the man i love or Hold on
RA1 Posted July 10, 2009 Posted July 10, 2009 Seems to me if you truly love him, you'll wait for him to come out of jail and, in the meantime, visit, write, phone to the maximum extent the system allows and dump the present "comfort" boyfriend.
boogieboy Posted July 10, 2009 Posted July 10, 2009 She already knows what shes going to do. Shes gonna wait for the ex to get outta jail, but shes gonna be selfish and keep the present bf, she'll never tell him that she'll never be in love with him. She iss to selfish to be alone. Thats what shes gonna do. She only came here to vent without punctuation.
t0ri Posted July 10, 2009 Posted July 10, 2009 If you'll never be able to love your current boyfriend completely, then let HIM go. He deserves to find someone who can love him wholeheartedly, and not keep him around for "a comfort thing." And besides keeping your current guy around for selfish reasons, you're longing for someone else! So I'd say it's time to dump your boyfriend. Whether or not you're willing to wait for your ex in jail to get out, is entirely up to you. Can't really help you there. She already knows what shes going to do. Shes gonna wait for the ex to get outta jail, but shes gonna be selfish and keep the present bf, she'll never tell him that she'll never be in love with him. She iss to selfish to be alone. Thats what shes gonna do. She only came here to vent without punctuation. Haha true!
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