Author GreenBamboo Posted July 11, 2009 Author Posted July 11, 2009 I though 'feeling me out' mean helping me to get the feeling out. No I am not going to open my feelings to him. Next week's talk will be completely courteous and professional. I have to talk to him since I am in a same project with him(just start, with 3 other people), I don't want that awkwardness. I don't think he has helped me to get my feelings out. He has comfirmed my feelings again and again (I will not say here), and that's not helpful. But he is a guy, somewhat level-headed. From now on I will force positive thinking for the whole situation. No I don't want an affair. It is not good for anybody involved. Thanks for everybody's helpful reply.
fooled once Posted July 11, 2009 Posted July 11, 2009 I am still confused. You want to ask him what? If he has feelings for you? Doing so could be the end of your job. Don't get into anything personal with him. Just be professional. I really can't see anything you have posted that leads me to believe he is even interested in you in a personal manner. He may just be trying to help you out and I really think you are day dreaming a little bit too much about him and thinking that because he was helpful to you, he must like you and want to have an affair with you. Just remain professional -- that's all.
Author GreenBamboo Posted July 11, 2009 Author Posted July 11, 2009 Just remain professional -- that's all. Hi fooled once, there may indeed have a language barrier. This is exactly what I said in my last post - just remain professional. I am sure he likes me, a lot. His tone changes when he talks to me. He is not that I like you and I want to bang you - that's not love for me.
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