Stark Posted July 13, 2009 Posted July 13, 2009 I'm curious as to why you'd even want to get involved with a girl that openly sleeps in the same bed with a guy she's known less than a month. Doesn't matter that it's you. That would literally turn me the other way in repulsion. Say you get your outcome, she sleeps with you, ends it with her BF. Whats to stop her doing the exact same thing to you? She's already proven that she's a user and would put herself into very tempting ways to cheat. Why invest your feelings into someone who uses you and her current boyfriend of 3 years. Wether she sleeps with you or not is irrelevant, there is such a thing as emotional cheating you know, which she is doing. Do yourself a favour and turn the other way, fast.
Trialbyfire Posted July 13, 2009 Posted July 13, 2009 This thread and OP are no different than the many who get hooked in by cheaters. Kaizen is fascinated by the physical chemistry, the illicit and ego-boosting nature of getting with someone who's supposedly previously committed. This will not end well.
Author Kaizen Posted July 14, 2009 Author Posted July 14, 2009 Hello all, first and foremost, I am aware of the futility of a relationship with this girl. But I gave up on that for anytime in the next few years once I heard she has a boyfriend. I don't like girls that jump from a moving train to another. Now, like Trialbyfire said above, it's more about the physical and the NOW. Somehow, last night, I ended up massaging her legs from feet to lower thighs for an hour or two. Then I left because I had work the next day and so did she. (It was about 230h). So, in conclusion, you guys seem to be VERY right. Thoughts?
Author Kaizen Posted July 20, 2009 Author Posted July 20, 2009 So the girl does the following three things: - She sends me nice, long emails but no romantic stuff. - She lets me sleep over in her bed next to her but not WITH her. There is touching, intimate touching, but no sex or kissing. - We talk about us and she does not give me clear answers. She does not reject me but she definitely does not accept me. It hurts to want her so much and to know she has a bf waiting for her back home... When I saw her yesterday I was nervous and I talked a lot more than I normally would. I was tired so I even invited myself over next time. I am so assertive around her to the point that I invite myself over. Then when saying goodbye our faces were really close and I would have gone for it but through some kind of Hulk effort I held back. It feels like she is completely playing me unintentionally. In conclusion, I am going to take everyone's advice and just cut her out especially since I am going on a trip soon and she is leaving my city in less than a month.
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