bitteorca Posted July 9, 2009 Posted July 9, 2009 Hi, This is just a quick question, and I know deep down it is stupid, but I shall ask any way! As some of you might of read from my previous posts, my ex made herself a facebook account recently and didn't add me. I noticed that she had tagged herself on an album that included both of us (some pics her on her own, and some pics of us together). However, she only tagged the ones of herself on her own or with others, and not the ones with me on. I know the reasons she hasn't tagged me really. But it still hurts. I haven't deleted any pics of us together even after we have broken up, the reason being that she is still my past, she was a part of my life and I'm not just going to ignore or erase that. I know she created her account when she was single and we weren't together, so its not like she's untagged pics of us or anything, she just hasn't tagged the ones of us together. I know this is stupid to be thinking, but it still upsets me tbh. She obviously just wants to get on with her life. I know she isn't really trying to forget about me, but it just feels like it on facebook, god facebook is stupid for this kind of stuff arrgghh this is stuppiddd!
asuman Posted July 9, 2009 Posted July 9, 2009 Hi, This is just a quick question, and I know deep down it is stupid, but I shall ask any way! As some of you might of read from my previous posts, my ex made herself a facebook account recently and didn't add me. I noticed that she had tagged herself on an album that included both of us (some pics her on her own, and some pics of us together). However, she only tagged the ones of herself on her own or with others, and not the ones with me on. I know the reasons she hasn't tagged me really. But it still hurts. I haven't deleted any pics of us together even after we have broken up, the reason being that she is still my past, she was a part of my life and I'm not just going to ignore or erase that. I know she created her account when she was single and we weren't together, so its not like she's untagged pics of us or anything, she just hasn't tagged the ones of us together. I know this is stupid to be thinking, but it still upsets me tbh. She obviously just wants to get on with her life. I know she isn't really trying to forget about me, but it just feels like it on facebook, god facebook is stupid for this kind of stuff arrgghh this is stuppiddd! Forget about the tagging... if she's trying to "forget about you" then why is she uploading photos of you and her together in the first place?
Author bitteorca Posted July 9, 2009 Author Posted July 9, 2009 no, sorry if I didn't make myself totally clear: it was a mutual friend's album. Pics of me and her on it, and pics of just her on it. She tagged the ones that were just of her and not of me and her. I know she's not trying to forget about me. Even after 15 mins of thinking about it, it is a silly thing to think. She's obviously not going tag pictures of us together because that's exactly it: we aren't together any more. If she had de-tagged or deleted pics of us then I would have the right to be upset. I dont kno...it still bothers me but can understand why she did it...a pretty good sum-up sentence for the break up as a whole I suppose! And when you think about it, I've blocked her on facebook, and deleted some of her friends because I know I don't want to be spying on her/them and looking at photos of her. Does that mean I'm trying to forget about her?! Certainly not, it just makes this easier for me. The same as not having pictures of me on her facebook will make it easier for her. Any comments on this are welcome thanks
asuman Posted July 9, 2009 Posted July 9, 2009 I see. In that case, she doesn't want other people to see pictures of you two together. That's what she accomplishes by refusing to tag those pics. Of course she's trying to forget about you. Why wouldn't she? You guys broke up, didn't you? The purpose of breaking up is to move on from the feelings you had for the other.
Author bitteorca Posted July 9, 2009 Author Posted July 9, 2009 I see forgetting about someone and moving on from someone two completely different things. I agree that she is trying to move on with her life, and having pictures of us two on her facebook would achieve the opposite. But, I know that she isn't trying to just forget about us. Lots of other things, that I haven't mentioned in this post, point to her not just brashly forgetting about us.
Thaddeus Posted July 9, 2009 Posted July 9, 2009 I think the OP is reading way too much into this. I've got a Facebook page myself - have had for, oh, about 2 years now - and it was only yesterday that I found out that you actually could tag people in the photos. (Needless to say, I don't spend a lot of time on Facebook.) Could be that she doesn't even know how to do it. Regardless, it's unnecessary drama. Let it go, my friend, just let it go.
Author bitteorca Posted July 9, 2009 Author Posted July 9, 2009 yeah she knows how to do it, she tagged pics of herself, that's the point! But I agree, its just another drama for me to cling on to and feel s**t about. Screw this, who cares what she does on facebook. She said she needs some time on her own any way, and I suppose that shines through here. Its an inaccurate account of someone's life anyway! I say that on the basis that my page hardly reflects who I am or what I am feeling! Any way, Cheers guys
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